Is it normal to react this way?

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So I have these two friends, and lately they have been making plans without me. I haven't been saying anything because I don't want to seem like im intruppting on their plans. But it was really upsetting me.. and yesterday, they went to McDonalds without me or letting me know what was going on. I acted like it was alright because again I didn't wanna make them think I was inviting myself, and I would feel bad about it. So today, they again made plans to go to my one friends house for lunch without me.. leaving me at school AGAIN by myself. So I got pissed off and walked away from them, and as I was walking off my one friend was all "REAAALLLY?!" ..So I turned around I glared at her and turned and walked off again.. and as I was walking away she said "GROW UP!" And I aplogized to them for making a big fuss and walking away and they just ignore my texts.. I know they ignored me cause I have them on BBM and they read my msg but didn't reply. So I waited for them to come back, and I my one friend went to my locker and I asked if she was mad at me and shes like "Obviously?" and walked away..and I ended up skipping class and bauling my eyes out and throwing up from crying so hard. The next period I had one of them in and she ignored me too, and she's never ignored me before so by now im like sitting in class crying my eyes out.. so is it normal for me to react this way and be so upset? and is it normal for my friends to react the way they did?

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Those bitches! You're better than that. Hold your head high and ignore them for being assholes.

    You are normal for having hurt feelings though, but next time don't bawl your eyes out over people who are so fair-weathered, they're not worth it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I have a high level of anxiety so when shit like this happens and I tend to make more of a big deal then it actually is. I hate it..

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  • SharpieSmile
    10 years ago

    Those girls told you to grow up... In reality, THEY'RE the onEs that need to grow up! I would be pretty pissed if my friends made plans without me (cause we are a group). And they're shutting you out and wont accept your forgiveness? Thats so childish! In fact, you are more grown up than they are cause you are being mature enough to stand up and apologize. On top of that, you dont even need to apologize, they are the ones that need to say sorry to you, for being immature bitches

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  • loveechelle
    11 years ago

    Dont cry next time. That shit doesnt last long... When they stop being such good friends.one or the other will be on yo asd like ah bump..

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  • unkn0wnperson
    11 years ago

    It's normal for you to act this way but not them. I'm sorry to hear this! but did something happen between you guys ? can you think of anything that happened that got the other two friends to act like that ? something bigger

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  • MoeLester
    11 years ago

    You threw up?
    What the fuck..?
    -.-a

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I have high anxiety and get upset easily, and when I get upset I go into panic mode..then I get dizzy and eventually yeah I throw up.

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  • sassafrassi
    11 years ago

    Why didn't you ask them why they didnt invite you? That way maybe they'll feel like assholes. You shouldnt be the one who feels bad but this is the way of the world. =..[

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    Girls are bitches, I was very glad growing up as a boy that I missed out on all the drama. Even as a grown ass man I see ridiculous drama in the girls my age!

    Those girls sound like bitches to me, you deserve better friends to hang out with! Ditch um.

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  • jboykindacurious
    11 years ago

    I can tell you now its normal to have those kinda friends. You dont want those friends tho. I had 2 bestfrieds that would always go out and do things without me. & im the one who introduced them. Its normal to get upset like that. But you need to stand up for yourself and then leave them in the past.

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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    You need better friends.
    Fuck them. Find a new group to hang out with.

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  • Shackleford96
    11 years ago

    You should slap those hoes!

    Everyone enjoys a good girl fight :P

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      ahaha :P

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