Is it normal to question myself when i know how i feel?

This goes along with my first post. I've been over analyzing my thoughts. I asked my mom one day, how does someone know they are gay? Is it from childhood?" She says they know from when they are younger. I began to question myself because I find myself looking at other women's boobs and butt, but not to check them out to compare myself, for I am very self-conscious. I've liked boys and men since I was little and still do, however, after I asked this question I have been questioning myself and freaking out. I know that if I continue to over analyze I will somehow convince myself I am gay. If I think about it, I get extremely nervous and end up crying. It's not who I want to be. Is it a faze, or normal for a teen, like me, to have thoughts like these? I am so confused and I know I like men, however who I am does not include checking out women for enjoyment or fantasizing about them. I fantasize about men and want someone to tell that in not alone in this.

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  • kelili

    You think too much.

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  • Karmasbitch

    It's really easy to convince yourself that you are one way or another when you really think about things. I have convinced myself that I was crazy before [maybe I am?] and really truley believed it which scared me. When you slow down and take a step back and really think about the facts, it's makes you realize that you have been over thinking things.
    You just have to slow down a bit and put your focus on facts. =]

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