Is it normal to question marriage when i want it?

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I'm 19 years old, and I have been in a stable relationship with the same person for 4 years.
We constantly talk about getting married, and I enjoy the thought of it.

The problem is, he wants to get married right when he comes back from
Basic in the fall.

I want to be married, but, I am kinda depressed that I haven't had a spontaneous summer romance, or that it's just, I'm so young.

But, we are also looking to my college studies and everything.
I'm in love with him. I just don't know.

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  • college
    11 years ago | pl

    I would definitely wait. 19 is very young to get married. Marriage is a huge commitment to make to someone, and the fact that you're worried about school and spontaneous summer romances tells me that you're not ready. You should be sure about marriage before taking such a huge step.

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  • RoseIsabella
    11 years ago

    I'd think there was something wrong with you if you if you weren't questioning all of this. You're not old enough to buy a beer yet so there's no harm if you wait before you get married. If it's meant to be in the future it will still happen.

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  • GreyWulfen
    11 years ago

    First, I have to gratulate you for a long and stable relationship - a thing that is not very common in your age.
    If you are not sure, wait. You have all the time you need to think about it, there is no reason to hurry.

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  • paradox90
    11 years ago

    You don't need marriage to enjoy love. Nobody does, in fact.
    Besides, do you think that a simple signature will determine the length of your relationship? Naw

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  • 0404
    11 years ago

    Do what is right for you. Go with what your heart says. Don't rush you have a life time head your still very young. All the best :)

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  • forever_anon
    11 years ago

    Sure. Just because you hope to be married someday, it doesn't necessarily mean that you want it right now. If you are unsure, tell him that you love him, but you're both very young and you're not ready for marriage yet. Hopefully, he will understand. Marriage is a serious commitment, so take as much time as you need to think about it.

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  • gutta269
    11 years ago

    19 is not to young to get married I got married at 19 and we are still happily married and I'm 24 now marriage is a commitment you just know that that person is your soulmate and you want to be with them for the rest of your life through the good and bad you will know when the time is right follow your heart

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