Is it normal to put someone u love through this?

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People lose loved ones by death everyday. Is it normal that a loved on, specifically a boyfriend of several years, would be taken away from u, no not by death,but because he's ignoring u for some shit that he did?(avoiding conflict idk) Its hitting me hard because its as if he died: he suddenly started ignoring me, like he was yanked away from me, we dont talk, i have no clue whats going on, but hes doing this with intent because I know for a fact he is alive and healthy. We used to talk every single day. Is that normal to treat someone u love like this? ive been a disaster inside for days.

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago

    Sounds like he doesn't know how to break up with you so he did it without your notice.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    I don't know. This sounds really passive to me. He should be willing to talk about it with you at least. I mean, has he even attempted to work out the problem by communicating about it first? Do you know why hes angry and ignoring you? He might be waiting on you to approach him to apologize.

    I don't know, but from my own experience, when I get angry at someone, I usually try to work it out with them first, and if they don't wanna help fix the problem, I'd probably ignore them too until they come back to me to say sorry. He might be just waiting for you to say sorry.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Silent treatment hurts emotions

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  • Crudhouse
    12 years ago

    I do that when someone (especially a girl) has pissed the shit out of me

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    ignore him back till he cares or you dont, whichever comes first. hard for you

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