Is it normal to put other people first?

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Well I really don't know where to start but i always put others people happiness first. most recent examples is me and this girl has been taking and we start flirting than kissing and more but than about 3 weeks has pass we have fight a lot i would get jealous and and shit but now she says she talking to someone else and that hurt like hell but i told her that's ok she will be more happier with him and she could do better than me and etc but it seems every time i get hurt by someone i love i cant get mad and i don't blame them i always blame myself for not being good enough and shit.....P.S sorry for bad grammer...

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  • SuMaFTW
    8 years ago

    Are you really putting others first, or are you just insecure? The results may be the same, but the motives are different. Anyway, good riddance... she sounds like someone you don't need.

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  • GuessWho
    10 years ago

    It's normal. Some people are like this. It just depends on your personality.

    Although, it sounds like this is not working out that well for you. You could try change, but that will most likely be very difficult.

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  • randomlycurioussmilingface
    10 years ago

    I do that too put other first but the difference is that it makes me happy. If in the end u making the other person happy and u feeling sad than its not right ur taking yourself too lightly and not making it easier for you. You should change this habit and be happy while at the same time making others happy

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  • ants91shearer
    10 years ago

    this is called being a pushover

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  • anokhi
    10 years ago

    I am kind of asking myself the same question. But then somewhere I deep down I feel like people who have self-esteem issues tend to do that. The only reason why I said that is because I have those issues and I am the same issue as to the fact that I put others first as well as the self esteem thing

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    she wont be happier with him and she cant do better than you...dont say that even if you think it

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