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I'd be happy if I only slept with my boyfriend once or twice a month. He wants it at least twice a week and would prefer almost daily (I was like that with him in the beginning and with most of my ex's but not anymore).
I wish he would just go take care of himself, I don't even mind if he watches/uses porn.
Is that normal?
I'm like you. I actually was honest about it with my ex. Although he wished that I'd want to have more sex, he loved me for saying it was okay to mastrubate and watch porn.
In a relationship I could do without sex completely. But maybe I'd like to have it once or twice a month, or maybe even less.
But I'm also the type of person who enjoys being by my self a lot. So if I were to get serious with someone, it would have to be with someone who is a lot like me in that matter. Wanting to have (extremely) little sex, and minimum cuddling. So that even if we were to get married we would have to live apart. Or have a big place so we could have our own bedrooms and bathrooms. Maybe one apartment each right next to one another.
Missed that one comment.
Well then I guess I'm not like you.
You have perfectly reasonable explanations to why you don't want to have much sex. Your sexdrive changed after the baby, and your boyfriend drinks a lot and wants to have sex but doesn't always finish.
That is still perfectly normal.
Well anyway, I do am the same way, just not for the same reasons.
With the bulk of the story now added I have to change my comment.
Sounds like it's time for a heart to heart talk with him.
I haven't had a kid and sure, I'm still young. But it's a fact that you probably aren't going to get turned on in an instant. If I'm not in the mood, I give my boyfriend a blowjob. And before I'm finished I'm definitely in the mood for more LOL
Yea...def should of fleshed the story out more lol my gf hated to have sex when I was drunk so I stopped drinking as much u gotta c if he can meet u half way as for after-baby sex same thing bj hj something that u can do for him if sex isn't an option
Actually we have talked about it. My sex drive changed drastically when I had our son (who is a toddler).
Maybe I should have added that to the above. Another factor is that he drinks a lot. He will want to have sex when he's drunk and sometimes can't finish. which is frustrating
Yes exactly they expect guys to sit with an do nothing "oh sry honey I know you'd love some physical contact but hey just go rub one out"
This is why girls are confusing have u told him this prob not so u kno what he thinks? So she's bit fuckin me any more because a.she's cheating or b.she doesn't wanna b together.period that's how guys think tell him what u want cuz it's fucked up if u dont