Is it normal to prefer romance over sex?

First of all, I'm a guy and a virgin. And though I find sex interresting - or how to put it - I find romance much more appealing. I guess you can say I'm "kisses before bitches" and "hugs before jugs" or something :P

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Comments ( 28 )
  • gako

    I hate it when guys tell other guys they are gay. Just because they like kissing better than having sex or they rather cuddle than go all the way. Every guys different and maybe your one of those more sensitive ones. Girls will love that about you

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  • soccer2

    Maybe because u haven't experienced it yet, you don't really know which is better for u. But that's ok

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  • Why does so many say I'm homo/bi or make it sound like I'm against sex? I've said neither of those, just that I like and prefer romance.
    Have people really reached such a low mental level to not be able to see the the differences between:
    1) Prefering romance over sex
    2) Extinct sex because of romance
    'Coz I've only said the first option, but some of you react like I've said option #2

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  • ladymantoloveyoulongtime

    when you finally get laid, im sure you will change your mind. you cant compare something that you havent had. sex and romance are one in the same anyway, you get romantic with your girlfriend to get her horny to get laid. i agree with the above posters.

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  • BoredGuy

    virginator

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  • fullmetaljo

    i think this makes you classy. wanting something that isn't sexual is just fine.

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  • Twinguy

    this is because you have a hormonal balance making you feel this way it is very normal. however sex is more of a testosterone urge instead of an intellectual instinct and fantasy.

    romance is the sex of the brain and causes its own hormonal release.

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  • sparrowfeed

    as a girl, i'd say there has to be a balance. my BF is the romantic type too.. but, as much as ladies like romance, we also like to do it down and dirty.

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  • You just cant get laid.

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  • sadtruth

    Are you sure your a guy? You must be gay!

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  • Allistalla

    LOL thats clever Id totolly go for a guy like you ^^ !

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  • RidingSheepOnClouds

    Well, if you're a vigin... clearly ramancing the ladies does not bode well for you. I hope you and your hand have a long and prosperous life together.

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  • sbruler

    I am the same way. Other than babies and closer relationships I see no reason in sex. I just wanna make her feel good. Simple as that.

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  • aussiewolf

    you cant compare something you have never had.

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  • sparrowfeed

    just make sure romance leads to sex, hun.

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  • combatgal856

    Romance is better, it has more meaning. Whereas sex just loves to confuse people.

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  • Duke

    Hmmmm...what about romantic sex?

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  • Scrat

    Romance is much more better indeed

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  • whatsan

    2 is better then 1. Mix them up. Your partner might want to get laid too. Else she might think you r not capable.

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  • Fair play. Keep going

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  • yes soccer2 is right. you need to try both first and then decide.

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  • yes it is, sex is rly nothing without romance.

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  • ccjigsaw

    I'd say normal. Romance is thrilling in it's own way. But once you lose the big V, you're definatley going to want to combine the two. It'll awaken your sexual side, trust me ;)

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  • aussiewolf

    haha funny sadtruth but the young generation are "sensitive". careful because they will all start baggin on ya for saying the word "gay" and not using it in the correct context hahahaha

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  • dice

    maybe u are gay

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  • Man quit moaning. Be clearer or don't ask. Peace

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  • sparrowfeed

    YA RIGHT.

    even as a girl i say.. something along the lines of.. 'plowed before wowed?'

    but romantic dinners are nice :D i just need to have the guarantee that they'll lead to other things..

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  • *remy*

    I say ur bi an u don't know what u want?

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