Is it normal to prefer masturbation to sex?

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I have a very satisfying sex life with my husband. He can and does get me to orgasm in a variety of ways. But, often times I'd prefer to just get myself off with a vibrator on my clitoris. I usually wait until he's fallen asleep and sneak off to do so, because I don't want him to feel bad. Like I said, he is very able to please me, but I just want to masturbate more than I want to have sex. Is it normal?

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  • hotlilmama
    12 years ago

    I think it's pretty normal.
    I'm the same way

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  • trickydick
    12 years ago

    You don't say if you do it after he has had sex with you. That would mean the sex is not good. I know because I've done it and I'm a guy. Some times no sex is better than bad sex for me.
    If you do it because your horny and he's not that fine I love a wank sometimes & go off into my own little fantasy.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      No, it's not after sex. We're kind of opposites in our schedules, he's ready for it first thing in the morning, and I'm not ready to do anything until later. He works 2nd shift full time, my schedule varies part time, but I still prefer sex at night. So we unfortunately have to plan time for sex, before he goes to work or on his days off.
      I think partly it's just because I know what I want, where I want it, and when I'm done.

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