Is it normal to please myself in front of my partner?

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So last night I went celebrate the New Years. As I walked into a bar with a guy who offered me a drink and to whom I was speaking friendly I saw this man... He looked like a Greek Godess. Normally, no one really catches my eye but after going back to meet my friends I still hadn't forgotten about him so, I went back there. Turns out, he was French. Thankfully I'm a good French speaker and I always had a fetiche for French men, that I never really had the chance to fullfill. But I honestly never thought I stood a chance with him, anyway, long story short, we kissed, danced, talked and he invited me back to his apartment.
Men, it was quite a night! But for some reason this man, didn't really cared if I came or not. I mean, he came 6 times, I came one, and I know that is not all that matters in sex, the feeling itself is great but I love when a guy gets me off. I was seriously sexually frustrated. So I decided, has a powerful female, I would get myself off, I had tried other times and the people I was with found it really sexy.
This guy, he didn't like it, he said it was strange and asked me to stop. And now I don't know how to feel about it.
So now I am asking you people out there, is it strange to masturbate alone when you're in bed with someone else? Would you find it sexy or a turn off?

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  • BlackyHancock
    8 years ago

    He sounds like a selfish lover. He should have been more considerate to your needs, not complain when you masturbated in front of him. He has a mouth and tongue why not use it?

    If my GF ever masturbated in bed I would always offer to go down on her. She always accepted.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    You seem a bit confused or at least you are confusing me. Are you gay? If not, why would you be attracted this guy (or was she really a girl) if he/she was a "Greek Goddess"? Goddesses are females.
    So is this all about you and this girl or was it really a guy? Maybe both? Or just a very gender unspecific dream?

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    • MissesAnonymous23
      8 years ago

      Damn, you beat me to it.

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    • justarandomunicorn
      8 years ago

      Aahahah, sorry, grammar mistake, it was with a guy and for some reason I wrote Godess, when I ment God!!! In this case, it is about a guy and about a real life situation, not a dream.

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    • skilful_soldier
      8 years ago

      You pretend to sail the world from your basement with a blow up doll 42 years your junior

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      • thegypsysailor
        8 years ago

        Hey, skill-less idiot, can't you catch up here? Nobody is still going on about the basement thing any more. It's old hat. Yesterday's news. Catch up there slow poke. Retarded you must be.

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  • Youngmarried
    8 years ago

    very sexy

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  • MissesAnonymous23
    8 years ago

    He sounds like a little bitch who can't handle a sexy woman. I think it's hot. My husband loves when I do it. I say keep doing what you're doing! It may have been a cultural thing.

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  • TheOne4U
    8 years ago

    I love watching a girl play with herself. I get off pleasing a women so the fact that this dude nutting 6 times to ur 1 is astonishing.. Keep diddling ur self in front of guys and don't worry about that guy.

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  • teeth30395
    8 years ago

    i would my wife to i have done it on her wife wont i ask her all the time

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Your spelling is atrocious!

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    • justarandomunicorn
      8 years ago

      I do believe you since my English is mostly self-acquired and not thaught and developed in a classroom... Just try being nice, not everyone out there is a foreign language spelling expert.

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  • cocklover2
    8 years ago

    to me its fine,there are times with my lady that we masturbate with each other she likes watchin me stroke my cock and i love hearing her moan, most of the time she gets so turned on she'll start sucking my cock because im near her mouth so i can cum on her huge tits i think its pretty exciting for a woman to masturbate in front of their partner

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  • lovetolickwifesass
    8 years ago

    i would love for wife to do it as i do it on her

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  • SuMaFTW
    8 years ago

    I would like it.

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