Is it normal to play hard to get ?

Not always but sometimes I play hard to get . Like when I findout someone is into me and I'm Into them and once I get them I play hard to get . Is that bad ?

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Based on 62 votes (47 yes)
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  • It starts to grate on the nerves after a while. What's the point of it?

    If you like someone and they like you, what are you doing but working against yourself?

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  • CompletelyOverThought

    Playing hard to get is pretty common, it just doesn't turn out well very often.

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  • Shackleford96

    I fucking hate when girls do stupid shit like that... It's so fucking stupid! Just stop it!

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  • ccjigsaw

    It's okay to play a little hard to get. I find lots of people without realizing it, love a bit of a chase. My friend always said yes to her bf when he wanted sex and the sex life started to slow down. I told her to try and look disinterested and say no once in a while. No idea why, but it fired him right back up again! It's human nature to want what you can't have! However, if you push it to much.. people will just give up lol Everything is best in moderation

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  • iEatZombies_

    I call it mind games, but who's keeping track?

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Yep everyone does it.

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  • PapzBSlim

    What is the point? Play hard to get and you might not get got. Girl did this to me and I felt I had to do to much to get her and started dating another girl. She got very upset and did not understand why. I told her I felt like she was playing games. This is annoying and I feel very immature especially if you like the other person back.

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  • prasatko

    Whenever I had the suspicion that the woman I was interested in started to play hard to get, it killed my interest in her immediately. I know that for some / many men it can be attractive or stimulating, but I am different. I probably suffer from allergy to women who play hard to get and whenever I see they are into this game, I lose all my respect and positive emotions towards them.

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  • Marisol

    I agree with Valkeer. And trust me when I tell you, playing hard to get could eventually hurt either one of the two persons involved. You don't want that to happen. I speak from experience.

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  • "A woman should do as she is told, or lest she herself play the misogynist"

    - Tommy the cat, MD.

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  • plum6

    I think its actually pretty natural, you basically want the guy to make an effort and 'fight' for you to prove he is a worthy partner. Just don't take it too far cause from a guy's perspective it's frustrating as hell.

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  • DolphinDevil

    Go hang yourself, after you played so bad with the person that it kills itself *muhahaha*

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