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I like to plan my future, college, marriage, kids stiff like that. My friend doesn't like it. I'm starting to think that I plan to much I will be disappointed by the ugly future when it's compared to my perfect dream future. Normal?
I was just like you... had everything all planned out. I had huge hopes and goals. What sucked was when I turned 25 and none of those goals were fulfilled. I felt like killing myself. But now I do have some of the things I wanted back then. Still not exactly where I want to be, but I guess I've learned to roll with it and to live for the day... though I still think about the future.
It's good to plan your future such as career and college but don't plan marriage and kids, let that just happen!
I'm a planner, too! Just leave room for reality and be flexible. Things change and things happen, just roll with it and keep planning.
as long as your goals aren't setting you up for dissapointment then why not??
I'm doing that right now so yea your completely normal, just be determined to do it.
Set good, in reach goals. Aiming high isn't always bad just don't be disappointed.