Is it normal to physically fight your bf?

--My seemingly perfect bf of 2yrs became addicted to crystal meth when we had a 2 month break up.When we got back together we would get in arguments and i never knew when he was sober like he claimed. When they became intense i would start to hit him(out of anger not purposely)til he hit me bac and we would start to physically fight(he never hit me first). But after we made up i wouldnt mind. I dont enjoy getting hit but is it normal to enjoy the fights or at least telling the stories after?

--P.S.(I DO NOT AGREE WITH HIS DRUG HABBITS but it has now been over 3 years and we are sweet and loving towards each other a lot of the time we plan on getting married soon)

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Comments ( 16 )
  • StrangeDuckDude

    Your bf is either a weakling or he's sober, because a girl in an actual fist fight with a normally-strong dude jacked up on meth is going to get hurt, and hurt badly (she's NOT going to enjoy it!!!)

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  • i'll like to pick fights with my bf

    hehe it turns me on when he is mad O_O

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  • DomBark

    dont bother, it'll end in divorce.

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  • DucksAndPeaches

    Oh wow! Marry if you want but please dont have children together.

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  • Pepper

    Get your goddamn life in order, you absolute nut job. HE'S A METH HEAD. I'm not impressed that he loves you. Married? You have absolutely no idea what you're doing. You can't connect dots and see interrelations between the aspect of your life.

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  • Make him go to some rehab, quit drugs then get married. It's for the best, because trust me you don't want to marry a meth head which will end up with a terrible future. You want someone who will support you.. And if you have kids.

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  • Star1778

    sounds like you both need help. don't get married until both of you have received some kind of counseling. this is just asking for trouble.

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  • GotCrabs

    Dont bother marrying a meth addict, its just gunna crash and burn in the future.

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  • mtnw

    i don't think there is any room in a good relationship for couples to physically fight. whoever throws the first punch or slap is responsible for the fighting.

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  • EricKeller2

    Loser's are abusers.. Never forget that. Tell him to get help; if he doesn't. LEAVE.. What is you end up having children and one gets hurt because of his mistake?

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  • lovelylady17

    My boyfriend and I are pretty much the same, except we do not do crystal meth. But we do get in crazy fights, in the heat of the moment your so angry but afterwards its pretty funny. I would say its normal but it will lead to him being the dominant abuser. For example my boyfriend will be the first to turn the argument to a physical fight and of course if your like me you will stick up for yourself and fight back.

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  • Outsider21

    The good news, he's clearly off of meth because if he was on it, you would have gotten seriously hurt. An average strength guy on meth getting into a shoving contest with his girlfriend would basically be the equivalent to me going up against the incredible hulk. So, clearly he was sober at the time since you don't describe being seriously hurt in any of these scuffles. Someone on meth not only is stronger than a sober person, but they have utterly no restraint in their actions. They'll basically stop at nothing in and in any kind of scuffle, they could even become enraged to the point of killing someone. However, on the other hand, the fact that he treats you like shit even while sober means that you should get the hell away from the guy. Any guy who pushes/hits a woman is scum, stay away from him

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  • sparrowfeed

    your man should not lay a hand on you even if you should break his fingers..

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  • combatgal856

    I think its normal. Me and my bf are always physically fighting I usually like provoking him and he is always like 'i dont wanna hurt you'. as long as he stops when you say so and it is not serious then it is normal

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  • beka1ici0us

    i like fighting with my bf to .. but the fact that he hits u back... i mean does he hit u back hard or just a soft hit? if its hard i would leave

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  • thehollywood

    I see the point its just the weird thing is idk why it doesnt seem that serious to me but to others it is, and i see why it should be.

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