Is it normal to percieve my appearence in this way?

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Im a 19 year old guy. I spend hours getting ready. I keep everything nice and tidy and i keep myself very clean.
But.. at the same time, I see myself as a slob. I see myself, either as a dorky wanna-be getting no where in life, or a handsome leader.
Never sticks either. the feelings about myself fluctuate throughout the day.
I get told i could be a model, but I don't believe it.
I figure they just have gnarly tastes in men.
I see myself as a loser, trying to be this perfect guy.
But at the same time, I see myself almost being that perfect guy.
I have two, very black and white, perceptions of what i look like and who I am.
Is it normal? anyone?

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Based on 45 votes (36 yes)
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  • BlueLipstick25
    12 years ago

    i am a girl, and its the same 4 me...but all you have to do, is keep your head up, and be who YOU wanna be :)

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  • UngodlyPlatypus
    12 years ago

    Yes its VERY normal. I garuntee that everyone has feelings similar to ones you have about yourself to ones about themselves. I look in the mirror and I think wow, I look really good today! Then other times I'm like wow, you really need to shed some pounds or shave or get some new clothes etc.. Just remember its normal and one day you'll find your median.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Thanks a lot.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Believe me, you're not alone. I have been told countless times that I could be a model, but I just think..."What? Taking it a bit too far there".

    You're not alone on this. Questioning yourself every day? If you see one flaw, it makes you think everything else is ruined because of that one flaw?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Exactly. Ups to you. Thank you.

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