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If someone found out I was fucking a Fleshlight would they think I was a creep? I actually like it better than the real thing.
I've never used one. But there is absolutely nothing wrong with having/using a fleshlight. People who find it weird are most likely sexist pigs who absolutely approve of vibrators.
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If I knew a guy was using a fleshlight, I wouldn't think of him as a creep. I actually wouldn't care that he has one. It's a tool used for masturbation and masturbation is perfectly healthy.
I've been thinking about buying one. I have to wait until I get my own mailing address though... I don't want anyone else opening it up >.>
nope i just uses a tub of mayonnaise then returns it for that feller in that other thread to eat in one sittin
I don't know if enough guys do it for it to be considered normal but there's nothing wrong with having one, and I think it's a good thing. Women have dildos, vibrators, etc, etc, while men have things like the fleshlight, and trangely enough I've noticed that a lot of people will consider a man weird for having personal sex toys while they wouldn't see an issue with a woman having sex toys.
I've heard that fleshlights can be better than the real thing and is according to some people, obviously won't be the cae for everyone but people that use them tend to hold high regards for them, which got me interested.
I think that one day I'll try one out.
So overall, maybe not normal but it's fine to have and use. ^-^
Guys use dildos and vibrators. And anal beads. And penis pumps. And butt plugs. And nipple clamps. And bondage gear. And dress up. And inflatables. And all kinds of things.
Retail 'pocket pussies' (precursors to fleshlights) have existed for half a century at least.
Ignorant, you are.
We're clearly talking about heterosexual sex toys here. Dildos, vibrators, butt plugs, and anal beads are primarily used by women, and yes, if a guy uses them and he's "straight", he'll be considered weird. Even if a homosexual guy uses them he'll most likely be mocked for it. I'm also clearly talking about masturbatory items, not sexual equipment in general.
I also said "things like the fleshlight", which means it's not limited to the fleshlight.
Also, let's not even go in to the inflatable part. Men that use them are ridiculed to the high heavens, anyone would be able to tell you that.
Regardless, my point was that men are generally considered weird for having sex toys unless they're used for sex acts with another person. I never claimed that men are limited to the fleshlight.
If you're going to try and start something then maybe start with what is actually said instead of just assuming I mean something I didn't mention or imply just so you can pull the "mwaha, I know more about you!" line when you address something I wasn't talking about. K? K. ^-^
You're answering this question with a high school level knowledge of sex.
My last friend with benefits used many types of sex toys on himself (including anally) and while I thought it was hot, he told me that he didn't usually admit his habits to other men because there is a stigma against straight men using anal toys. And he was right too, I know lots of straight guys who even refuse to consider the possibility of anal toys because they think it's "gay." It's quite a shame because they are missing out on a lot of pleasure.
If it's just for occasional use. But anyone trying to say it's better than real life is making excuses for their own failures and trying to fool themselves.
Ofcourse they are, Wigz. I mean, you'd know more about what a guy finds sexually stimulating more than the actual guy, right?
...Or you're just jealous of an object and have the "how dare they say something else is better than what I have!?" mentality.
Sex toys can bring more pleasure sexually. The whole intent of sex toys is to bring sexual pleasure, and yes, some do it better than the sex you're attracted to, male or female.
You're just going to have to live with that.
I don't doubt pocket pussies are fun sometimes. My husband had (still has?) one. But unless you have a serious fetish for using an apparatus such as that, real pussy always wins.
Except when it doesn't. And ofcourse it's "real pussy"...Even though I applied what I said to both sexes, you only look at it for the female side.
This is nothing more than you not liking that your equipment can be beaten by other equipment. It's not your call to make, sorry.
Yeah well I can sell what I got for a lot more than what a fleshlight costs, so, what's your point? I have made over 6 figures dangling what I got but never giving it up. So go on....tell me how I compare to a rubber toy whilst I count my riches.
So? No, what is your point? That doesn't change anything I said. Some people find sex toys more pleasureable than what you have, this guy is one of them. You can't change that, and guys like him would rather have the fleshlight than what you have and there's nothing you can do to change that.
So there, I just told you. You can go on and on and try to prove that what you have is something everyone prefers over a toy but you'll fail because there are people that prefer the fleshlight over what you have. This guy being one of them.
So there, I told them. Now please, for the love of God, shut up with your fragile ego.
So there, I just told you how you don't compare to them. Deal. With. It.
There's a difference between the raw physical stimulation of a masturbatory aid, and the interpersonal connection involved in sex. If you're just trying to get off, why wouldn't a flesh light be better? There's no hassle, you can control it, and last time I checked women didn't vibrate on their own. If you want to share the experience with another person, you'd go find a real partner.
I don't know about that. I've never had a pocket pussy get angry at me for screaming someone else's name before; that's definitely a plus.
PS her name is "Labia Madonna".
Yes, it's normal. Male sex drives don't always match their partners. Good alternative. Better than cheating.