Is it normal to only want what you can't have?

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I have dated several wonderful women. I chase them till I catch them- date for a while- then grow tired of them and break up- only to want them back... and this happens time and time again. I just broke up with a girl that has begged me back 2 times, now, as for this friday we broke up and she wants nothing to do with me and I want her back- but know why. I have realized that I want something I cant have. Is this normal behavior?

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  • Pearsonz
    12 years ago

    I'm the same way. I've dated loads of beautiful women, women my friends would kill to date.. My friends are always telling me to stop because I'm making a big mistake. I end things then after a few weeks want them back.

    I constantly chase women because I love the feeling. I go for women that I have no chance with, once they get feelings for me I end that too (even before sex sometimes) then want them or someone else back again.

    I'm the same as you though no one is perfect enough so I want rid then realize how good they were then get bored when they show interest again.

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  • PenHeadPress
    12 years ago

    The grass is greener on the other side of the fence. Vegan farm animals like goats know this truth instinctively. They are always craning their necks through the fence to eat grass even if it is not as green as their own grass.

    I've always found emotionally unavailable women to be the most attractive.

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