Is it normal to only look "hot" with certain clothing?

I know this might seem really obvious but I have just been noticing something.

Wake up. Find something to wear. I decide to wear a nice outfit. Something that still covers my boobs and butt (amazing right?). I go to school and I notice some guys that usually don't ever look at me, looking at me. They give me a certain look that I would associate with oh I don't know, arousal of some sort? And the guys I sometimes talk to, talk to me with more smiling and more flirtatious body language.

This happens when I wear certain outfits. All of the outfits cover my areas well (no cleavage, no butt cracks) and don't show much skin at all. One is even long sleeved. I wear long jeans with most of them except one with capris. (Short shorts are just...no.) Another is a dress that is long sleeved, length to my knees, and I even wore opaque tights with it.

As silly as this sounds, I just don't understand why guys look at me differently when I wear these certain outfits. From the media, men like women who wear clothes with their boobs out, short dresses, whatever. But of course, real life isn't the media.

Maybe some of you could describe certain clothing you find more attractive on women?
It just doesn't make sense because I don't feel as though the outfits are "sexy", compared to what I've seen on other girls. So why do I feel that guys seem to give me more attention when I wear these clothes? It's as if I'm only attractive when I wear these outfits. If I decide to wear a baggy sweater, I'm basically nobody in terms of attractiveness.

Do you find girls attractive only if they decide to dress a little nicer that day? Because that's what I've noticed from my experience.

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  • InsanityShotgun

    Colours matter. They off set skin tone, lips or eyes. Different clothes hug bodies differently. So yes different clothes make people "hotter"

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  • An outfit doesn't need to show skin to be hot. Could it also be your confident attitude in certain outfits? I get more attention in outfits that are really "me" I guess, and not generic, skin showing or no. I dont think its surprising for a fashionable and pretty girl to turn heads without revealing mammary epithelium

    Speaking of showing skin, warm weather has finally arrived so maybe I can shave my sasquatch legs and put on some shorts!

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    • shuggy-chan

      honestly i half expected this to be your story xD

      and i agree with that. nudity. isnt always as sexy as if you leave a little to the t\imagination. Example of my on FB friend posted picture, of her in what just a bright pink almost grandma sweater, but her look adorable in it.

      and you have wookie legs. Hawt

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      • Yeah. Showing too much skin isn't really my type. People would describe me as "shy", "mysterious", "quiet", all that stereotypical stuff.

        Also: I flippin' love huge sweaters.

        Shaving legs is one of the most annoying things that guys don't have to go through and that is kinda frustrating but oh well that's society. *tear*

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        • Do you know what I hate most of all...periods in the middle of the day. I can stay home aaaaall day, go to class at 2, and get my period the second I take my seat. Talk about a scumbag body. *angry tear of rage*

          I am not sure what my style is. It's a little bit of everything.

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          • Crusades

            Eww!

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            • It is gross. Almost as gross as your personality here sometimes.

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        • shuggy-chan

          im half asian so im fairly hairles, but my legs, hahah oh god im look like a monkey man

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      • *wookie call* hahaha.

        I am starting my mission to be a hot ass bitch lol. I should make a blog. Step one should have been ditching the leg hair O.o aw well.

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        • shuggy-chan

          well a girl did seduce me with her pitch perfect wookie call hahah

          and you dont need to be a hot ass bitch, your got being an adorkable girl already

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          • Thanks my shuggy buggy booby bear!

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    • I agree. Also, I agree that it might also be my confidence in play. Thank you for your constructive response. Makes a lot of sense.

      Hahahah, we're all going through that same struggle so don't worry. ;)

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  • EccentricWeird

    Please. Complain more about how the media is against you.

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    • I would just like to say that it's not a bad thing in my opinion to be against the media because the media is already a skewed look on the reality of woman.

      Also, this is a place where I just vent my feelings and I figured it was one of the more appropriate places to do it so, my apologizes.

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  • KimSherman

    Tights are a great addition to any ones wardrobe.....
    https://www.flickr.com/photos/141369235@N04/27574455054/in/dateposted-public/

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  • thesmokingun

    Comfy attire for relaxing and clothes that complement for outings. And when I'm feeling sexy I'll show the girls with low v neck top......morning boys!

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  • Diver2

    I love naked women with nice bums. And some guys too.

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  • Crusades

    It might sound weird, but, it kinda makes sense these days. You see, girls who dress really slutty tend to have a very arrogant attitude and being stuck up as hell doesn't help either. Nowadays, girls who try the hardest to attract people, are the most likely to reject you. Women contradict themselves in everything they do. So, men who see you in clothes that might stand out as in different from the typical slutty outfits stuck up girls wear, might think you're more approachable and less self-centered.

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