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I lost my virginity to my girlfriend. She has had sex two times before me. I think I'm going to be with her forever. I want to know if this is normal to only have sex with 1 girl and to be with her for the rest of my life.
My uncle met my aunt in the 3rd grade. They eventually married and had 13 kids. They were married up until he died at 90 years of age. So it is possible but not common. Good luck and keep your fingers crossed.
I would suggest you take a bit of time to date a few other girls, before you promise yourself to one for the rest of your life.
After some years there will come a time when you will wonder what it's like being with other women. Better to get it out of the way before you make your commitment.
There are nations where this is the norm. Don't believe anyone if they tell you you are missing something by not sleeping around.
Hmm but if you truly love someone and want to be with them forever.. Why would you want to have sex with other women? Whats this Biological Imperative shit...
according to some theories of evolutionary biology, humans desire to procreate and produce offspring. I mean that may or may not be true, depending on the individual. Some people don't want kids, other people may want children but might not really enjoy sex, others might love having sex but don't want kids, and every other combination you can think of is possible. There's nothing wrong with being happy with one partner and being in a committed relationship, in fact that is definitely something that most people will compliment you for. It's just that what is often considered *normal* at any particular time has a lot to do with the direction that society is leaning toward at that particular moment, generally speaking. So because lots of people today enjoy running around with multiple partners, they might really believe in their heart that being with one person is not *normal*. Don't worry about what people think is normal or not, do what makes you happy.
I think it's something you find out about when you get a higher education. Give it a try, you may find it enlightening.
I find it amusing that my comment got voted into hidden status. This shows just how true the comment of @januarycurse really is about the way society leans.
However, males, regardless of species, are biologically programmed to have as many offspring as possible. Whether you actually succeed in making them, or stay around to see them grow into little monsters is irrelevant. Sex feels good so that you will do it... often. I, even though a king, am a slave to my biological imperative to mate as often as possible.