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K, so this has happened with a few people for me. I'll kind of like a guy, but I only really feel a connection with him when we're getting it on. Idk why. Like, otherwise I feel like our relationship is shallow. I know this isn't good, but please tell me if any of you have had the same problem.
This is lust, not a connection. Your relationship should not have it's foundation on sex.
A connection that happens in day-to-day life may be more difficult to pinpoint than the connection that occurs through sex. It might not mean that you don't have feelings for that individual. If you're sure that you don't, though, you owe it to yourself to keep looking.
it seems as though you are wanting a intimate and emotional relationship but your only getting the intimate side, maybe your not with the right person.
You would have to provide more information in the terms 'connection' and 'shallow'. Is it about communication? Is it about lack of interest when you aren't engaged in sexual activity? What is either there during sex? or otherwise lacking?
Does he ignore you or seem less interested with you when you aren't being intimate?
i think u should not have a connection only when u have sex that tells me yur relationship is fake