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When I look at another person I feel NOTHING... When I talk to my partner I feel aroused. Is that normal?
Totally!
When I'm interested in someone I become sort of blind to other people.
It's a great way to be.
You have to assume people like us are much less likely to cheat on their partners...
At the moment I'm fucking crazy about a girl in a way I've never been before & I feel like, since those feelings developed, I haven't seem one other attractive girl.
Especially in the beginning of the relationship when the feelings are new, and extremely intense.
If you are in love. I tend to get blinders put on when I fall in love. I don't even look at other people in that way anymore. But when it comes to the one I love, they are everything.
Hrmm thanks shuggy:) I will try to keep what you said in mind when Im feeling too cray. Guys perspectives are good to hear.
No problem miss idk-how-right-in-the-reply-section. xD
And besides don't worry, if that were the worst case scenario will occurs. I'll drive two hours to the shore and feed you ice cream and cake.... till your chubby. Then you'll feel even worse about yourself, i'm have to settle for some lanky wierdo, that totally didn't have any ulterior motives. :D
I hope so too if they mean romantically.
But when it comes to physical attraction. I think it's normal to still be physically attracted to other people.
Love vs lust basically
I hate the truth dammit. I know Im insane to think a person could only be attracted to their partner, but it drives me mad that my boyfriend could be lusting after some hot chick at the store. Yes. I see good looking guys but to me, my bf is the hottest, sexiest and most scrumptious person ever. I dont think twice about an attractive guy when I see one. I dont wonder about him sexually. Im just not phased. I just want him to think Im the most scrumptious bitch too lol.
O yeah, i might have a control issue that needs to be addressed. How dare he think that hot girl with big boobs is hot.
Just cause a guy thinks a girl looks attractive doesnt mean for a second he is lusting over her. Especially if his lady is a real catch like you. So your never in any danger.
Example, i think we all agree Scarlet Jo is a beautiful creature, but that doesnt mean he is crazy for his crazy asian bitch. Nawwww mean?
I wanna say yes. I think the reciprocal liking has something to do with it. Other people are a wild cards, it could a random amount of time till they feel intimate with you. But with your partner you already have that.