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i am a black man and only attracted to black women is this normal? my friend says it isn't. he says we are hardwired to find other races attractive too
Yes it's normal.
You can't choose who or what you're attracted to. It's a combination of nurture and nature.
You might find, it you had a lot of non-black women in your social group, eventually you would start to find them attractive.
Anyway, your friend is wrong.
I've always thought about the nature part, but never the nurture part. But that makes complete sense, and would explain things better.
Of course! Nurture has a big impact, not so much on your base sexual orientation (straight, bisexual, homosexual etc.), but on your preference within your sexual orientation; things like preferred eye colour, hair colour, face shape, body shape, personality type, ethnicity and so on.
By nurture I should mention that I don't exclusively mean childhood. In fact preference is ever-shifting. The general type of lady you are attracted to now may be very different from the type of lady you are attracted to in 10 years time, or were 10 years ago.
Normal but I don't think that humans are "hard wired" to do this. I think it lies in preference mainly. I am interracial but within the two ethnicities I am only attracted to one part: Caucasian. I also find Asians to be attractive. However, just because someone might be Asian or Caucasian, it doesn't mean that I'll be attracted to them. Other factors come into this like Nationality or age,etc.
Big gay asians? No, sorry.
Now, that gay asian bear can strut his stuff over to a bar where he rips off his plaid shirt to reveal a big hairy man chest. Then, he can woo the other bears by performing tricks with his chest.
I can just see the line wrapped around the theatre.
I'm a bi white girl and Ii could see dating a black man but maybe a half black woman...
It goes in phases with me. I don't find men from my part of the world attractive at the moment.
Even serial killers tend to rape/kill within their own ethnic groups.
It's just what we do honky.
Your friend couldn't be more wrong. We are biologically designed to find our own race attractive. Why? I'm glad you asked.
Both penis size and vagina depth vary by race. Black guys have bigger dicks, black girls have deeper vajes. Asians guys have smaller dicks, asian girls have shallower vajes. And sex feels better, the better the dick fits the vagina.
A small dick in a big vagina ain't going to do much for either party. A big dick in a small vagina may hurt the girl in addition to decreasing body contact/stimulation. Therefore we are programmed to be attracted to the people that we will better reproduce with.
When it comes to me, I'm not attracted to a single person who is a vast majority black. But if they have a 1/4 of any other race in them, then they have a chance at being attractive.
I completely disagree with that logic. I'm a black female with a normal vagina and ever since I was a child I was attracted to men outside my race. Especially white men. I'm currently with an Italian and have never been attracted to a black guy.
Black people are the exception to the rule, sorry. Black people just aren't attractive. Also, a higher percentage of them are bad people. Which brings us to the second principle of attraction which disthing pointed out, "nurture." If you grew up in a poor neighborhood, then most of the black people around you are probably acting like thugs, which you aren't attracted to. Or you grew up with mostly white people and have grown accustomed to them.
Your opinions are pretty narrow. A large percentage are bad people? What are your sources for this bullshit? Main differences between me and a white female are skin color and hair texture. Being a bad person doesn't just run through someones blood line. Only reason i'm not attracted to black men is because I like lighter skin on males. I think darker skin looks better on females. Thats my preference. Also, I think the real bad people are the ones with political power.
My sources for this bullshit? Only the .gov crime statistics of America. Did you know that black people murder seven times more people per capita than white people?
Wana talk about bad people? What about the people who run this country? This country doesn't give a shit about its citizens. We are nothing but numbers, brainwashed, slaves providing money for these evil higher powers. They corrupt, lie, and cheat and have been doing this for decades. The media, the government, responsible for our ever growing ignorance, our sexual desensitization and our desensitization of violence, the poisons in our food, the fattening of its people, the ever growing health problems that people suffer and the complications of getting help. The sexualization of children and the growing issues of pedophilia. These higher powers are ultimately responsible for hundreds of deaths in america every single day. Such corruption. Such evil. A society that conquers, kills, and destroys. The worst part is that they hide behind smiles and lies. I don't believe these statistics because they are controlled by the higher powers themselves through the media. This is one of the most corrupt countries that exists and its been this way. And may I ask what color the majority of these people in higher power are? They are of pale skin.