Is it normal to only be able to finish during sex?

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When I am giving my boyfriend a blowjob or jerking him off, he never finishes. I can sit there and do it for over an hour, and he says it feels wonderful and he loves it, but he just isn't able to get off. He's even shown me how he jerks himself off, so I could do it like he does, but still to no avail.
However, if we have sex, he finishes within 15 minutes.
It's really strange to me, because the only other guy I was sexually active with was the exact opposite.
Is it normal for my boyfriend to go through this? Does anyone have a reason why this happens?

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Based on 7 votes (4 yes)
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  • LuCiFeR_666
    11 years ago

    Glad I could help... and no, trust me, ive had and still have serious issues with this:( its definately not you, or being comfortable with you... its him and his physical make-up...

    My problem now lies in the fact that we have overcame this dillema by a change in positioning, she doesnt like it anymore... lol

    Hope u guyz get passed it...

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  • hammer3333
    9 years ago

    just the idea of fucking you're mouth made me shoot a nice big load of hot cum all over the place

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  • Mason334
    11 years ago

    Go to jerk off land

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  • Mason334
    11 years ago

    It's wired to here about this be a man and sperm come on come on funny I'm exact opposite lol

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  • lawabidingcitxen
    11 years ago

    I have the same "problem",have with every relationship I have been in, and I agree with LuCiFeR it isn't you. Some guys just can't finish that way.

    My wife gives the most amazing head I have ever received but the only way I have finished in her mouth is by a quick flip at the last second. It's not her fault and I don't think it is mine either it is just one of those things that can't be explained. I wouldn't worry about it.

    I say just keep up the good work. He will either eventually overcome whatever the hang up is or be forever grateful for the effort. Either way he will appreciate you more for it.

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    It's all about closing eyes and relaxing and being comfortable with positioning, his mind has to be into it! Give him an new fantasy!

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  • LuCiFeR_666
    11 years ago

    Normal, I have the same problem... my wife eventually gives up and we gota go to normal sex... I actually hate it coz i would also love to finish in her mouth or hand.

    What worked in her mouth though was a change in position, where she would be under me... in other words id basically doggy with her mouth...

    As for the hand... to this day, Ive never came in it...

    It sux i knw, but yes its normal....

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Thank you. My boyfriend gets really self-conscious about it, but it doesn't stop me from wanting to pleasure him via handjob or head. I thought maybe it was the fact that he doesn't feel comfortable enough with me, but I guess not.

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  • bigtoy
    11 years ago

    It's normal - he just needs to relax a bit more. Sitting on his face may also help as a distraction...lol

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