Is it normal to occassionally hate my friends?

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When my friends tell me about their boy problems or whatever, in my mind I'm saying, "Good, you deserve this stuff happening to you. You're only seeking attetion."

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    I understand what you're saying.

    I have negative thoughts about my friends too...

    One of my buddy's told me she was pregnant and I asked her how and she said "well, we just didn't feel like using a condom". I thought "Yeah, then I can't feel sorry for you". I still can't, but I console her and I don't say anything to her about it.

    Some of my friends just do dumb stuff, like DUI or getting caught with drugs and I have a hard time feeling sorry for someone if they are the direct cause of their own misfortune, but if that person is my friend and I like them, I don't mention it.

    I like to keep my inner bitch to myself... irl.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Whenever anyone is annoying me, stranger or no, I always think,

    "If just went apeshit right now you'd be in alot of trouble wouldn't you"

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  • Devyn
    11 years ago

    No one's perfect. Most people do get themselves into stupid situations and over react to trivial matters.

    However, as a good friend, you should put aside the fact that they're being silly and be there for them and attempt to console or help them.

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  • MsWVgal
    11 years ago

    I dunno how much people "deserve" their problems, but yeah half the time they get themselves into problems. I don't get involved, either.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    I am not a very good friend and I have to admit that sometimes I wish that no one considers me as a friend. But most often when they are in trouble and I know that they have done everything to get into it I just ignore them until things get better. By ignoring I mean I don't try to help or get involved in their issue but I still talk to them.

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