Is it normal to obsess over a crush for almost 1 and a half years?

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So, the title says it all.

I've had this crush on a guy for almost 1 and a half years and I feel like this is a little obsessive. I won't go into too much detail about it but like when I'm at home I pretend he is there and like I'll talk to him, but really I'm alone. But it makes me happy.

Yesterday, I also saw my crush kiss a girl and for some reason I actually felt like my heart broke. Like, I felt so betrayed and heartbroken. As if he were actually my boyfriend. (I'm a gay male, btw).

I know I'll never actually date him because he is out of my league and he is popular and clearly straight and all that but it still hurts. I really want to get over him but I don't know how. Is it all just in my head? Should I get help?

Is it not normal? 1
Is it normal? 10
Is it just an obession? 1
Should I hook up with another guy? 3
Should I get help? 0
Is it all in my head? 1
Should I just get over him? 3
Is it love? 7
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  • workworkworkwork
    7 years ago

    I sort of have the same thing. There's this guy and I love him, he's straight and pretty much everyone knows I like him and so he hates me for it.

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    • thatcutesmileyguy
      7 years ago

      That's no good. He shouldn't hate you for that. He should at the least be accepting and just brush it off cause honestly if I was straight and a guy had a crush on me I'd feel kind of flattered frankly. I feel like my guy may know cause he has caught me staring at him a fair few times and I'm pretty sure he knows I'm gay cause it's basically a given thing at my school right now so yeah haha

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  • BlackyHancock
    7 years ago

    normal to be like this but not advisable to continue. FInd someone new is the best advice

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    • thatcutesmileyguy
      7 years ago

      Good advice. Thank you for your advice X

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  • thegypsysailor
    7 years ago

    The best way to forget someone is to be with someone else.

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    • thatcutesmileyguy
      7 years ago

      Thank you! There is another guy I may have the chance to hook up with.

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      • Ellenna
        7 years ago

        Then give it a try.

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