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Is it normal to think about someone (alot) that you have never actually had a conversation with? I have made eye contact with him from across the room more than a few times, but that was 1 year ago and I'm still thinking about him. Am I crazy?
I used to work at a thrift store. I was at the register and a guy came up and bought a jigsaw puzzle. I made a comment on how fun and colorful it looked and he made a similar comment back. He paid, then he left.
But throughout that minute and a half or so there was just so much...SOMETHING...flowing between us. I can't even explain. Just a huge connection that sent my heart racing.
I have no idea who he is obviously and I can't say I even remember what he looks like, but that strange experience just glued him to my head.
artFreak is right.
But there's also some truth in feeling afraid of moving past this wall that you have built. You've developed this idea of the ideal person and you won't be able to find other people, maybe a few, attractive and you might have trouble seeking a real relationship. See, I have six guys I think about: three I was with, three I was never with, and I think about all of them constantly. How and when and whatnot, it's painful, but normal.
We all wonder what could've been.
It's normal.. But i don't think that u r actually thinking about him.. u probably feel kinda "dissappointed" with yrself b/c u don't know what would have happened, or u wished u were more brave?.. idk! Just telling ;p