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Virgin..Lol. I just feel a little embarrassed that he would know I'm a virgin. He's not like a manwhore or anything but he has had more experience than me and I just think that he might get a little uncomfortable that I'm a virgin. Should I tell him?? and IIN? Is it really that big of a deal?? GUYS this is when I could really use your point of view ;)
It's such a big thing in many cultures that a woman be a virgin when she marries that there's obviously some part of men's minds that wants to be first to "plant the flag". Personally, it's never bothered me either way, although I'd probably take things slower and be more sensitive if it's someone's first time.
Imo it'd be better to tell him. If not, it could potentially make things more tense and awkward for you due to the extra pressure of pretending that you're experienced. If you tell him, he'd be more careful too. It's true some guys like to be the first and others don't. I once made a guy very happy when I told him that even though he wasn't my first, he'd just taken the last bit of my virginity as he was better-endowed than those who had preceded him lol.
i'm a.... well... i'm no manwhore but i've got a little more experience than most...
i am dating my girlfriend who is a virgin, i want to make sure her first time is not only special, but mindblowing!
hope this shockingly simmilar turn of events helps :P
All things sexual are embarrassing until you explore them. That is the mental preset of the average person. Some people are exceptions, but it's not very common to be so open to it from the start. Really though, most men love the thought of being the only guy you've been with. It takes a lot of stress out of the equation because he doesn't have to worry about you comparing him to an ex.
Never wanted a virgin myself, give me someone that already knows what is going on, have more fun that way.
i didnt tell my boyfriend until he was kissin all on me and suckin my nipples nn thn he was bout to slide it in nn i told "wait i have to tell uu something" nn he lookd at me kissd me nn made love to me
Im a guy. Tell him, alot of guys like being with a virgin. Like, we can show you wat its like.
You should tell him when you feel that you can really trust him, it can turn out to be a good thing for him and for you or just a good thing for him if he wants to take advantage into persuade you to do it, or he’ll be a gentleman and wait until you are ready to do it...Good luck! I’m a virgin too and is really awkward when you tell a guy that you’re a virgin cuz they gulp hard lol
tell him because sooner or later he will find out,and its better not to take him by surprise during sex etc(blood,pain etc)
i dont know if its normal or not but if i were him i'd scared me to shit,no matter how experienced i am. it puts a lot of responsibility on ones shoulders you see... lol