Is it normal to not want to have sex with my girlfriend?

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So I'm a virgin, and the thought of having sex with my girlfriend has always sounded like fun, normal so far, right? But just recently she told me that a month before we met each other she gave some guy a blowjob (the first and only sexual thing shes ever done), and ever sense she told me, I've not wanted to have sex with her. I've even been contemplating breaking up with her. So, are these things that I'm feeling normal? (I hope my question follows the guidelines, I'm trying).

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  • shuggy-chan
    9 years ago

    Well i know a turtle that will have sex with her for you then

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  • CloverFish
    9 years ago

    Sometimes people make mistakes in their lives. If you're uncertain, wait longer and see if she's even interested in doing that to other men again. However, know that she confided in you with that and that probably means something to her.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    So, you're jealous of a memory.

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  • Darkoil
    9 years ago

    You scared he had a bigger penis?

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    • NeuroNeptunian
      9 years ago

      Bet money that was his first thought.

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  • CDmale4fem
    7 years ago

    We all have a past life that took place BEFORE we meet "the one" . Get over it. You may lose a good woman over a guys stupid jealousy. (Yes yours).

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  • Master.debater
    8 years ago

    Not a huge deal just talk to her about it!!!

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  • Gspyder
    9 years ago

    You're just feeling jealous, it happens when you care about someone. You shouldn't judge her for things she has done when she wasn't involved with you. She cares about you now so whatever you two do together will be special. And hey, if that's all she's done, there PLENTY of things you two will be able to experience together for the first time ;)

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  • ginsters101
    9 years ago

    My wife had two sexual partners before me, luckily I didn't let this put me off her - because in the sack she has always been one hot bitch.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Wow, what a childish attitude. I suppose you'll grow up one day and come to realize that everyone has a past and you were not a part of it.
    I'd certainly break up with you, if I were her; you sound like a real loser. Really, grow up.

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  • PandaBitch
    9 years ago

    Ekkk.. she gave another guy a blowjob ? (- A -)/ Broke up ! Not to be meany , but she will have sex with other guy someday since you don't wanna break your virginity.. and, i wasn't blame you about this , a guy who keep his virginity until he married .. that's Kakoi (Awesome) !! 0(> w <)0

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