Is it normal to not want to have a wedding?!

I want to get married one day, I just don't want the whole circus that goes along with it! Is rather have a little private thing for just my husband and I, does anyone else feel this way?

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Based on 41 votes (34 yes)
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  • TravaIanche

    I highly suggest just getting married in court if your considering marriage, it's not a good idea to thrust yourself into debt at the start of a marriage and they aren't a big deal in the long run. My brother had a very expensive wedding and he had to sell all of his outlets "his fun car, gaming computer, ATV, a few grand cash, etc... and even though he says he doesn't regret it he always comments on missing above things^

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  • poy

    me too but im a guy.
    I guess its the preperation the planning the invitation the stuff and all that, Its just too much work and stress.

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  • Very few things in life are a bigger waste of money then a wedding.

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  • VioletTrees

    Yes. I'm getting ready for my wedding in October, and I kind of wish weddings never existed sometimes.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    Me either.

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  • NotStrangeBird

    I bet your father is relieved!!!

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    • imagirldealwithit123

      so um your user name is NOTstrangebird..but you are strange [dis was sapoused to be funny im not tryin to be mean...]

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  • yesnomaybeso

    Jeez but loads of people are like you!!

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  • howaminotmyself

    Weddings are overrated. If you don't want one, don't have one. Do it the way you want. But expect family to want some kind of gathering. First challenge as a married couple, how to disappoint both sides of the family equally.

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  • ... and not everyone does have a wedding.

    You are normal to want that, a lot of people don't.

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