Is it normal to not want to go to the strip club? (imma 21y/o guy)

if you don't want to go, just say no.

If they tease you tell them that.... "I ain't judging - some men gotta pay for sex and some don't. i'm just the kind that doesn't have to pay."

I mean i have nothing against strip clubs. i just have problems with people who won't accept "no" for an answer.

Personally, I'm kind of a loner myself. I can sort of understand what you mean because the whole women grinding on you just seems wrong in a way. Like it just seems sleazy that a woman would do stuff like that for money. I guess if I were in your shoes I would not go but that's my opinion. Try suggesting something that you guys can all do that's still fun and decent. How about going to hooters? That place is kind of the same as a strip club except the foods better and the woman appear to have more respect.

I'm not into them. Especially if its in a bad neighborhood the girls will be butt-ugly skanks. I do confess, I did go thru a phase when I was younger.

I marked you should go, I'm not into strip clubs either I was when I was younger, but to hang out with friends should be more important then where you're at, and your not depriving woman its their decision to be there. Depression can only be helped with friends, if you stay to yourself you might lose them. Or yeah go hang out somewhere else with them they can't only hang out at strip clubs, but you can also just hang out and not get a lapy dance

I don't blame you; I've never really saw the appeal either.
Furthermore, the industry IS degenerate, and I think it's great that you can see that.

The "abuse" of women seems like a pretty far fetched excuse to me. Strippers are paid huge sums of money compared to the effort they give out. They aren't forced to touch or interact sexually with anyone, and if some client thinks otherwise, he gets thrown out by muscled bouncers. If you want actual exploitation, just take a look at your local McDonalds workforce. Now that's a demeaning, low paid job.

However I totally understand that you are repelled by the sleazy neighborhood.

My boyfriend is also 21 and his friends wanted to take him to a strip club but he got angry with them and I have so much respect for that. He's a real man for coming home to me and giving his attention to me rather than some cracked up stripper. Real men get girlfriends, not strippers. Strippers are only for men who are too ugly to get any.

R.E.S.P.E.C.T :P

I'm more worried about being abused than abusing them - there's some bitches out there man !
But hey , if you don't wanna go strip clubs , then don't.

I hate strip clubs , how are you suppose to enjoy a chick stripping that 1- does that for a living and 2 , around 100's of other people and drunks in places like that. I can't get into it.
There was one at a pub once that I sorta got into , it was a lot smaller and intimate than strip clubs and she was a really decent looking chick - ha probably just a hooker anyway but hey 40 or 50 other people around , can't get into it.

Are you depressed because you havent been getting laid at all recently? And because you are a loner and nobody likes you?

Maybe by going to the strip club you will be able to meet a nice girl, the kind you would want to bring home to meet the folks. How is it the abuse of women if they are there willingly and to make money for themselves? No wonder you havent been getting laid you sound like a pussy.

I selected, "Yes, it's normal," but no, you shouldn't go.

You gave several valid reasons for why you didn't want to go.

Yeah, it's not really my type of thing either. I can't remark too much on the subject because I've never went either. But it doesn't seem like something I'd enjoy (even though hey- naked women? Not bad). But still.

Abuse of women? A typical fembot fag that doesn't know how it really is, Go get experiance before your judgement

GAY