Is it normal to not want to go out?

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Okay so I'm the girl who doesn't like the club scene.
I've been out with my cousin before when we were on holiday and I got so drunk I didn't really like it...
She's invited me out for her birthday, she has a large group of loud friends and isn't quiet herself, the bar and club scene isn't really me... But I've said I'll go, my social aniexity is cutting me up, I'm overthink ing the whole night out in my head already, people looking and me and what they think. I won't drink as much as everyone else and I'll probably stick to beer , I'm also quiet, oh and I have to be up early in the morning 5am early and I've been working late all week so I probably won't stay out very late....

Iin? Should I stay or go?

This is so hard for me :(

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Based on 34 votes (31 yes)
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Comments ( 11 )
  • theseeker
    8 years ago

    If you really don't like it, be honest and let her know clubs aren't your thing. You have good reason not to go so she should understand. If not, that's her problem for not seeing your side of things.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I have, her whole family call me losers.

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      • theseeker
        8 years ago

        Truth is you're not a loser for doing what you know is best. Don't let them manipulate you like that. If you're not gonna have a good time I don't see the point in going.

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  • Caryopteris
    8 years ago

    You are normal. You are also an introvert. Introverts are a normal type.

    Introverts usually enjoy small groups, maybe one friend or two at a time. People they know well doing an activity that they can get lost in like a sport or hiking. Maybe you enjoy hiking with your dog. Try to meet other people that like to do what you do. Try to let other people understand you that you're quiet and you like quiet, but it doesn't mean you're not nice. Extroverts don't always get it, but you are likely surrounded by other introverts too.

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  • Slythr
    8 years ago

    Its absolutely normal. Its your life and your choice. Don't try to change yourself unnecessarily. Instead, do those things which make you happy

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I do but I am lonely cause of it.

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  • Call.me.Curious
    8 years ago

    I would say go, and try it out! If you don't like being there, then you can leave. It's not like you'd be stuck there, right?

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  • snarkygirl
    8 years ago

    I've never liked that scene, one on one is my style.

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  • Abartho750TC
    8 years ago

    Well, if I were you I would not go out in that situation, 5 am is too soon! And parties are made to last till that time

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      But, I have no friends and I think this Is why....
      I could just go for a few hours? then come home?

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago

        That sounds like a good compromise.

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