Is it normal to not want to give up on my marriage when he's hurt me

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is it normal that for four years of my life I dealt with abuse and cheating from my sons dad and letting him go was easy.
But my husband now has left numerous times usually for like 2 days or so, and cheated once,but there is nothing that he could do that would make me hate him or it easy to walk away?

He struggled with drugs and that's a lot of reason why I keep forgiving him,but that excuse only last so long, even though we have our times we have a passion and love for one another I've never seen before. why is it different? when they both done the same thing?

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  • Kayleenacole412
    10 years ago

    Your hilarious, i'm sure you get sucked off often considering your such.a gentlemen!!

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Get a new partner and suck him off on a regular basis and swallow his cum. I bet then everything will be okay.

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  • Kayleenacole412
    10 years ago

    I feel like what we had is still possible, I'm not sure exactly what makes me fathom that thought but it was a special kind of love we shared, all the ppl I thought that I loved and thought loved me never even compared, to the passion and the beauty of what we had. we were the ppl that ppl were jealous of. after we had our daughter things got stressful and we started fighting, which we hadn't even had so much as a disagreement before that, it broke my heart to think something so little as money or dishes could cause.us havoc we were unbreakable.I don't want to believe that he's the same as others.because he's everything and more to.my kids And i.

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  • False
    10 years ago

    You just dont want to loose him through his flaws.
    I dont know why you're still holding on, but maybe you should talk to him.

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    • Kayleenacole412
      10 years ago

      well he's raised my son as his own we also share a daughter. when him n I got together we were more than perfect. we have talked often do but it's not as easy to hate him or just let him go my love for him is unbreakable but I know his behaviors I don't deserve and is very unhealthy for our Children.

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      • False
        10 years ago

        So the last thing to do is talk to him.

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