Is it normal to not want to date someone because of an amputation?

I kind of like this guy and he definitely likes me. We get along really well and have really deap conversations. The only problem is that I'm not really attracted to him because he's missing two of his fingers is it normal or am I a bad person?

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Based on 66 votes (30 yes)
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Comments ( 18 )
  • JuliusE

    Wtf, I thought the guy was missing arms or legs or something from your title...TWO FINGERS? Seriously? Get over it.

    But is it normal? Yeah, probably. Most people are that shallow. And I am NOT someone who thinks finding your parter attractive Is unimportant or that thinking it is is shallow...but as a guy who values attractiveness in a girl, I wouldn't care if she was missing TWO FINGERS for fucks sake. But hey, whatever. If it turns you off than I guess that's just the way it is

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  • Jweezee

    Get a grip and give him your digits.

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  • PalestinianGuy

    I once had a crush on girl who was missing an arm.

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  • Lilypadhopper

    Your a shallow brat.

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  • 1776

    Youre not a bad person.. You just like to be fingered. Thats all ;)

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    I thought that you were going to say that the guy was missing an arm, a leg and a testicle or something like that but only two fingers? Jeez.

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    • Yeh seriously, I was like wtf??

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  • Avant-Garde

    Man, you're really shallow! Who cares that he's missing two fingers?! As long as he's a good person, that's all that matters! If I loved someone that was a amputee I would still be with them. They could even be missing a few limbs and it still wouldn't matter to me.

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  • NoraBaker

    Hmm... Interesting. I had a fling with this GORGEOUS guy when I was in high school and I would humorously describe him as "almost perfect". He was a basketball player, had the prettiest face, nicest hair, hottest body, hugest cock, greatest conversation, cutest laugh, best manners I've ever seen. His only flaw was he was missing a pinky finger. Almost perfect!

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  • shade_ilmaendu

    I don't see why it would be a big deal honestly. Fuck, my boyfriends stepfather doesn't have arms. I feel like if I really liked someone, an amputation or a disability wouldn't make a diference. They're still the same person.

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    • Flippyfloppy

      Father in law has to just do the worm on his wife during sex...poor fellow, even doggy style he just does luke a verticle worm

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  • Captain_Kegstand

    I wouldnt have a problem dating a girl that was missing a few fingers! I have before actually!

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  • Well you can pick your boyfriend's and you can pick your nose, and if you start dating him you may even get to pick your boyfriend's nose.

    Dont be so shallow, its just a couple fingers.

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    • Captain_Kegstand

      HA!

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  • BigScaryRooster

    If you prefer your men with all their fingers, then no you're not a bad person.

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  • Mmmpfh

    Out of the few amputees I've known, for some reason a person missing a few fingers has always unsettled me more than a fella missing a whole arm. I've no idea why.

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  • CheyChey

    you're not a bad person as great as a person's personality can be deep down physical appearance does matter, it dosen't make you shallow

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  • Neapolitana

    Lol that's shallow but not "abnormal."

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