Is it normal to not want to date?

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I am 19. Have not ever fallen head over heels for anybody, have had good relationships for a while, then they turned bad, I kind of hate guys now. Only 2 real boyfriends. I feel like you just cannot trust people. I think though the biggest issue is I AM NOT ATTRACTED TO ANYBODY AT ALL. Haven't been really ever. I liked my boyfriends but I look back and don't feel like it was the sort of attraction I wish I could find.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I'm the same way. Lots of people are. Maybe you're asexual, maybe you're ready for a real relationship, or maybe you just haven't met the right guy yet. Whatever it is, as long as you don't WANT to date, all is well (:

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  • Tehboss
    12 years ago

    you haven't met me yet that's your problem!

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    Dont worry dating is overrated and really pointless. Unless you find someone you really like I dont see a point. I also wish people were more interested in being friends not dating. It just makes things so complicated.

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  • bemah
    11 years ago

    no, That's normal. Just concentrate on being successful and having fun and someone will eventually come your way.

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  • Nitastar
    12 years ago

    Happened to me, then, I met this guy, my actual boyfriend, he turned out to be EVERYTHING I've ever wanted, and I realized that I've never been so attracted to anyone. Patience, he will find you.

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  • rockobsesse
    12 years ago

    that's normal. you've been through 2 relationships that didn't work out, so now your taking a break and just enjoy being single :) however, when you said, I AM NOT ATTRACTED TO ANYBODY AT ALL. i was thinking you could be asexual, but that's probably not the case?

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  • Lynettemofucka
    12 years ago

    Have you no heart?

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    • cracksontheceiling
      12 years ago

      Maybe there's just a small piece left of it. I don't know.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    lesbian?

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