Is it normal to not want to break off a possibly bad relationship?

You are in love with the concept of a boyfriend, but not the boy you're with. Leave him, and find someone else to be what you need. No feeling, cuddle, or love is worth the abuse and disrespect. By staying with him, you're showing a lack of self esteem, respect, and value. You CAN do better than that. Every girl deserves the best without these "side effects". Don't lower your self-value by being with him when you can be with someone that will love you better.

I know Exactly how you feel. This guy sounds soo immature. & A lot of guys just like to talk out of their ass! He wants to say all this, to test where he really has you... You stay, he'll keep pushing the limit. I've been on both sides of this. You obviously care more than he does. You need to get strong one day & set him straight! Leave if he keeps on. He won't find anyone better. I've seen my ex's talk to 7828724 girls after we break up. Let him. He needs to talk to a few true SLUTS. To realize what he had with you. Good luck.

So.. This is a toxic relationship that will never work out & you're letting him use you; if this is how he treats you, he sees you nothing more then an object, you deserve better... And BTW if that's you in your profile picture, you could have just about any guy you want, so keep that in mind. Good luck.

Break it off! There is someone out there for you, and you're wasting your time with your boyfriend while you could possibly be looking for the right person! He sounds like a bad boyfriend anyways! And being single isn't all that bad! Do you like him calling you mean things & then making it up by cleaning & cooking? Breaking up with him will be a good decision to make!

the more seriuos u get, the worse itll be! these are the warning signs.. you need to muster up the strength and get out!!

its normal to feel that way, but he sounds very abusive and you need to get out of that relationship. you don't love him, you love the idea of a boyfriend who does cute things for you. but you can easily find that again, in someone who truly cares for you and is not harmful to you.

Is this a joke, or fake?
If not, you need time to mature. This sounds absolutely ridiculous. If you can't handle being alone, then you need to learn some independence. Nobody deserves to be called a slut or threatened to be cheated on, no matter what the circumstance is. No real man who deserves your love speaks to a woman that he supposedly cares for (or any woman for that matter) that way.

I've had that relationship before. It NEVER gets better, TRUST ME. You need to figure out what YOU want in a guy, not what he wants in you, and you will find that "prince charming". I got away from the bad relationship and I'm now with a wonderful guy. Keep going and don't look back! Run, girl!

I am kinda having this situation too girl but i been with this guy for a year..i am the one who spoils him..lmao. he never bought me things & took me out to eat anything like that we had money problems. so i respected that & didnt want money ruin the relationship. he calls me "cunt & stupid bitch" allllll the time when we get into it. He jokes @ the wrong time sometime ya know its hurt. I am still with this guy. I am havin same thoughts & feelings as u do for your man. I try to be careful with the signs. Good luck!

You need to leave him. Don't make the same mistake I did. My bf bought me presents all the time, he always bought me dinner, took me out and cleaned up for me but he was also physically abusive, sexually demanding, and would call me horrible names and say horrible things and threaten me if I ever said anything about his behavior, temper, or his cheating on me. (yes he cheated) He would also come back and say I was the problem and I was the horrible one and he was so great. Doing all that nice stuff for you is just to mask the abuse. He wants to control you. It will get so much worse. Please leave him. I know it's hard but you will regret it later if you stay.

You're special, aren't you?

BTW .. no he has never hit me.