Is it normal to not want to be with my gf anymore?

We've dated 2 years, I use to have the strongest feelings for her, but now I just feel like I don't want to be with her anymore. Is it normal to fall out of love? Or outgrow a relationship?

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Based on 40 votes (34 yes)
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  • joybird

    First year is always wonderful, second year is OK, third year is boring, fourth year bye-bye!

    I think that if you still really love the person after 3-4 years then you always will.

    If she doesn't make you laugh anymore, don't waste another day, bin her and don't go back!!

    I say, don't go back to give it another chance in case she pulls the century old trick of getting pregnant to trap you!!

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    • I have to admit this is absolutely the truth, when you get through 3-4 yrs you either love the person or its done.

      I can attest to this from personal experience.

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  • Rusty-Rider

    Keep on truckin'
    The ocean is full of fish.
    Go get a new fish if you need one.

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  • ziggie33

    After about 4 years it's been scientifically proven that you lose the little "butterflies" you used to get and for some people it's earlier. It's all about chemical reactions in your brain. Love really has nothing to do with it.
    Some people can keep the feelings, others relied on them too much.

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  • susabusa

    yes this is normal, but the best thing for you and her is stop the realtionship now before you both waste each others time. im sure she will be heart broken at first but later when she looks back it at she will love you for being honest and for not keeping her around when she wasnt wanted.

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  • karmasAbich

    Dump her.

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