Is it normal to not want to be"the good son"

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Ofc my parents wont say it, but me and my bro both see that i am the"favorite " it is not that my parents dont love my bro, ofc they do. Its more like when my brother wants something of our parents he would ask me:" can you ask mom, she will say no to me and yes to you."
This has kept me out of trouble alot of times where my bro would have been screwed. Yet i still dont like being treated like this.
is it normal to dislike having an easier life then my bro because of this

( sorry for any sucky english and stuff)

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  • asdf90091
    13 years ago

    I don't know if that's normal or not, but it's uncommon. Most people would abuse the situation and brag about it, which shows you have good character.

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  • TylerDurden91
    13 years ago

    I'm also the black sheep of my family. But totally normal. My oldest sister is the first-born favorite for my mom, and my dad TOLD me once that I was his favorite (out of five kids that's not bad). It's okay to feel bad, I get away with a ton of stuff from my dad that my other sibblings can't and I feel guilty too. Yet, when my mom shows preferntial treatment for my sister, that sucks too. Normal

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  • CountryRoads
    13 years ago

    Being the family fuck-up is definitely worth striving for.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    My family do this to me so I have turned out using their words against them to make them feel like they are bad people I can now get as much as I want due to how I use my words and their own words against them. You dont always have to be the favorite to get what you want.

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