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a couple days ago i decided i did not want to be gay anymore and i have had sexual attraction to girls recently is this normal
That would be my first thought. A true homosexual does not change. It's not a matter of choice.
No, its not. No-one gets up in the morning and decides, "Gee, I think I'll be gay and suck cock the rest of my life". Personally, I think it's abnormal and I find it disgusting. But that's because I'm not gay! You must be some religious asshole. Go fuck yourself. I hate fucking Christian fundamentalists. Just as bad as the Islamic ones. Worse actually.
Theres feeling involved. I know what your saying.
This has nothing to do with religion.
The fact is that, theres feelings yes, but you can control yourself. So therefore, it's choice.
That's like waking up one day and saying, "I want to be happy. Im happy now." Like you can just change emotions and attractions like that. Attractions are chemicals in the brain and there's not much you can do about it.
Well, if it's not for religious reasons then your even dumber than I thought.
Normal. I had a friend who didnt know how to socialize with girls, so he decided he was gay and did gay experiments with some gay dudes in our college, afterwards however told us never liked that so thought he was asexual, until he went on a vacation to the Philippines and met the girl of his dreams and and fell in love with her. (i myself find Filipino girls attractive, been there myself and took picutres with a bunch of slim, black haired filipino ladies with really hot legs, tehy are also very easy going and friendly but I am ok with ladies of my own country and even had a girl friend back in the US, so was committed not to try anything there) Socialization is a big factor and he found it hard to mix with American girls, but he really found Filipino culture amazing and they got along fine inquiring each others culture, having some common interests, helping her speak better English, her showing him around and teaching him some of their traditions and other stuffs and they got along fine and after his first night with her he finally shared the experience and came out as straight. That was a few years ago, hes now moved to the Philippines and is married to her and even has a son. I wish him and his family all the best. However I heard East Asian girls in general are very friendly and easy to socialize with, compared to here in North America. But regardless socializing is a big factor, find a lady with common interests to you, get to know her well and develop the emotional attachment and then you can have a happy physical experience with her.
I said normal, but I don't really see the problem. There's absolutely nothing wrong with being gay AND having a sexual attraction to girls. Enjoy both! I certainly do!
"Bisexualality", and "gay" are social constructs set by the liberal hate establishment. You never were to begin with.
You're normal. Who want to be gay? Everyone in the world want to become a normal person.
I'm curious as to how your love life with men was going. Or was it just sex? Never confuse sex with love. I have noticed gay men who are alone for a while. Never having luck finding a serious boyfriend. Will go "bisexual" for a while. Dating women. Until they meet one they think they could make them go "straight." But you can't change who you are. Perfect example. John Travolta. He hid it but couldnt change. I feel sorry for the wives.
There has been some misunderstanding on here, presumably from younger people or some who have drunk from far left (I am a lefty myself, but a rational one) bad science.
Whilst sexuality is out of control, that doesn't mean it can't change. It can, and it's perfectly normal for what and who you find sexually attractive to change as you get older. Another person's sex is just one facet of your sexuality, don't get bogged down by people who say you can't change. You can, but it should be an organic change. A forced change on the assumption it's a *choice* can result in depression, anxiety and even suicide.
Just fuck what you want to fuck, providing it can consent if it is or was alive.
Ask any sailor or marine who's been to the Phillippines. Ask them what the letters LBFM mean. For those who don't know any sailors or Marines from the western Pacific, let me enlighten you : LBFM - little brown fucking machines.
Even the ones of legal age look as young as 10. No tits, no ass, plain. That doesn't stop them though. Whoring is a way of life for the desperate and almost all of them are.
PI is a steaming shitpile. I spent a year there in the Navy, and traveled around the country. Makes Mexico look like Beverly Hills.
Just have sex with whoever you want. You're limiting yourself by trying to conform to a label.
thanks everyone especially cesar91 i have a crush on this cute asian girl now
I suspect you were straight all the time and perhaps unsuccessful with women so you tried this. I might be wrong, but take this into consideration. Sounds like you're returning to normal.