Is it normal to not want my bf to watch skimpys or strippers?

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well my bf is working up north renovating a pub for 3 weeks at a time. at the pub he is working at there are skimpys every weekend. i am not comfortable with that because i dont want him watching skimpys or strippers for that matter. am i the only girl who feels like this about there bf?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    He shouldn't. Why is he pleasuring to thoughts of someone else ? That would hurt you, of course. A big hit to self-esteem, right ? It's like emotional cheating. Anyways, you women nowadays tolerate too much. Letting them watch porn and all that *shakes my head*

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    12 years ago

    He's working there. Let the poor man do his job, honestly. :/

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    wats wrong with big girls they deserve love too!

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  • Peaches101
    12 years ago

    thanx guys.. i understand what your all saying but he doesnt even want me to go study because there will be guys in my class! I dont mind him working there n what knot.. i just dont want him to the bar watching skimpys or strippers its simple as that and he promised me he wouldnt which is fine n im happy about. i was just wondering if there are other girls out there that feel the same way i do

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      So he can secretly see those strippers and you can't even go study because there will be guys in your class? Yeah. There's something very wrong here.

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  • honeybeee
    12 years ago

    I dunno if wise is being sarcastic but if he is not I agree with wise !!

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  • rawisjericho
    12 years ago

    As long as he comes home to you, who cares? If your forbid him from doing something, it's just going to make him want to do it more

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    Sadly, you're not the only insecure girl who has thoughts like this.

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  • chaosdragoon1
    12 years ago

    Guy has a job-check
    Guy must pay bills cause she isnt calling him lazy-check
    Guy hasn't shown obvious cheating signs-check
    Guy isnt acting neglectful-check

    .....insecure girlfriend complaining because a bunch of young girls are skinnier than she is-check.

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      im a big girl and im not insecure i know my geoff loves me!

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  • beast1980
    12 years ago

    WTF are skimpys?

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    • robbieforgotpw
      11 years ago

      Skimpys are the best

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  • pixie_dust
    12 years ago

    it can be easy to fall into this situation. however, if u can bring yourself to have enough self confidence to at least not let him know that it bufs you so much. I would suggest start working out and that will help you both physically and emotionally.

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  • Inspector019
    12 years ago

    I think situations like this are dependent upon your commitment level. If you are both serious and have time invested then you should both respect each others comforts/concerns and try to avoid situations that might strain the relationship. Technically working isn't doing anything wrong, but in a committed relationship there should be consideration for each other in decisions made.

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