Is it normal to not want friends?

56% Normal
8 Comments

So here is the deal. i hate drama, and i hate good byes, to such an extent that i rather not make friends at all than have to deal with either one of those. Good byes and separations being the biggest reason.
I have lots of friends, but i even avoid those, because sometimes i just view them as distractions. So i just avoid studying with them, or talking to them, or anything. Is this normal?

Voting Results
56% Normal
Based on 68 votes (38 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 8 )
  • belbel000
    12 years ago

    yes its normal. All that drama that can happen between friends can just ruin everything. Its best to avoid ppl.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • dakaa
    14 years ago

    same, i don't like dramas, i hate greetings and goodbyes, i don't like chatting rubbish. i only have like 2 or 3 friends, which is okay.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • [email protected]
    10 years ago

    Yup,SURE is.Especially with WOMEN.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • abbygirl
    14 years ago

    Yes, having really good friends is a lot of work. And I sometimes don't want to make the effort. That's very normal. But anything worth having will require effort and will require overcoming some of my private feelings. As for your disliking good byes, no one likes them but life is full of good byes. The poet said it best, "Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • GreenSheep
    14 years ago

    sure it is. You seem to be acting out of fear tho. Dont let fear control your life! Some ppl are just anti-social tho, and thats just fine.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Kameshee
    14 years ago

    dude xx thts totally normal...lol i had tht too i was totally antisocialciwanted to cut maself out of school social life, to not get anymore rumours. it's totally normal. and if you're in the situation, where u dnt wanna have ppl talking bout u not wanting friends, just when sombody talks to u, answer and smile but just dnt hang out w anybody. i lately discovered, tht its better to go to the cinema alone than with a go with a group of friends.
    totally normal.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • PoisonFlowers
    14 years ago

    I'm like that too, but I can't have no-one, because that's one of my biggest fears. People tire me out, but I have to have someone there, otherwise I feel like I'm going insane.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Magicer
    14 years ago

    your cold!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    -2
    -2