Is it normal to not want any relationships?

64% Normal
2 Comments

I've been a loner since I was a kid. I just was happier that way. I tried having friends. I tried being married. All that got me was misery. I found that I wanted to be alone. So I pushed away anyone who had gotten close to me. I do have some regrets about this sometimes. Usually at this time of year. You know, the hollidays. But after the first of the year I'm back to feeling at peace with my lone self. I just don't feel lonliness like most people. Is this normal? Sex is fulfilled with using my hand or, once or twice a year, some hooker. I'm not gay. I do enjoy sex with a woman. I just want to have to go through all the bullshit that goes with it. Like love and marriage. Been there, done that. And I ended up hating it. And I have no desire to do that again. Are there others like me? If so then happy hollidays fellow solo person. I plan to buy myself a new TV and a new laptop for Xmas. Hope that you treat yourself to something nice as well.

Voting Results
64% Normal
Based on 22 votes (14 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 2 )
  • WhiteStallion
    9 years ago

    Commitment issues

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    2
    2
  • bazzini
    9 years ago

    I feel you. But you're not a loner. Maybe you were but you clearly had a relationship at some point in your life and unfortunately it failed for whatever the reason and it couldn't have failed to a more inappropriate person who likely needed some positive reinforcement that there is something fulfilling about relationships. Being single myself and having been shit on one too many times by women has left me bitter and alone but let me tell you that you shouldn't write yourself off as destined to be alone. You're playing it safe, and that's ok cause it seems that you just don't want to get hurt or disappointed that your expectations aren't met.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0