Is it normal to not want a threesome?

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I read about everywhere, every guy talk about it ... the f*cking threesome.

Am I the only person that does not want to do this?

I used to do it once because I could not stand to hear about it again (by my ex) and I finaly ''agreed''.

Not even 2 minutes after it started the only thing I wanted to was to get done with this and get the f*ck out of there! I was so fucking repulsed, every touch on my body felt like agression , it felt disgusting. At least I was high so I could ''escape''in my head. The first thing I did after they FINALY had enough is run to the shower, I could not wash enough.

It screwed up everything I ''had'' with the ex and after that he was only a penis to me, just a tool. I just started to ''drift away'' as they say and he broke up shortly after. By that time I didn't give a f*ck about him or the other girl , I had no respect for them anymore, how do you respect someone that tell you to ''suck it up'' when you want to stop ?!

Now my current boyfriend ask for it and all I can think is '' NOT AGAIN FOR FUCK SAKE''. So I changed subject and I started to do anal 'cause I'd rather get f*cked in the ass (wich I don't really like) instead of that.

Is it normal?

Do I have the right to be happy in a relationship without doing stuff I don't want to?

Because I feel like I have to because all I read on the internet about a girlfriend that don't want to do anal or threesome is ''dump her'' or how stupid and stuck up she is.

That's so pathetic .

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Based on 42 votes (29 yes)
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  • Echoes
    13 years ago

    Don't you ever do anything in bed that YOU DON'T LIKE.

    Your ex-bf kind of sexually abused you, and your current is about to. Don't do anal or blowjob unless you really really enjoy it.

    And hell no, doing threesome and anal don't in anyway make a woman more attractive to a man, unless he's a piece of shit and he only wants a sex object and not a woman. Dump the son of a bitch,there are many decent men out there.

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    • SexyUnicorns
      9 years ago

      You've earned my respect.

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  • stefani52
    12 years ago

    Its normal I Just had one and I absolutely hated it. Lesson learned never do anything u don't feel isnt right for you.

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  • spicemix
    12 years ago

    You should never do anything you don't want to, IMO acting out fantasies with each other that may involve 2 or more people is fine, but should only involve the 2 of you unless you both want someone else involved for real. But once you have said no...that should be it, and they shouldn't keep asking or pushing for it. That is just totally disrespectful of you, your feelings and your relationship.

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    If they ask for threesome, its cause they don't care much about you.

    Anal on the other hand, I couldn't live without :P

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  • LaDulceVida
    13 years ago

    Yes it's normal. I don't ever want that.

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  • deepimpact
    12 years ago

    Normal. I get so fucking fed up of guys thinking its ok to turn this fantasy into the real thing. They think its ok to pimp out their wife/gf (who by the way loves them!) to get sexual gratification and if you says no then you're the one causing problems. And they got the cheek to try and persuade you if you say no, like its only a matter of time.

    I ain't your whore and neither is the OP! Have sex with your gf or fucking go without, but don't expect any woman to part her legs for other guys for you unless you're paying her enough: after all that's what you guys are after aren't you? A whore not a wife.

    Jeez I get so angry at this.

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