Is it normal to not want a significant other?

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I started realizing that I was bored whenever I dated a guy, just not really into it. I dated a lot of them but I wasn't interested. Then I thought ok maybe I like girls? I tried that out, definitely do not like girls.

I sort of just rather not have a relationship, like I'd rather hang with my friends and make art. That makes me so much happier than being with someone.

People keep giving me such a hard time about this and saying things like "you could get so many guys why are you single" "wow you're still single it's been months"

I had one relationship where I really liked the guy, it lasted 2 years but since then I just don't want another one.

Is that crazy? Is it not normal that I just want to have fun with my friends and focus on my career in fashion?

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  • Summernight
    10 years ago

    I have the same thoughts.

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  • darla20
    10 years ago

    I think it's normal, I also would rather live alone than take anyone who is available. I'd like to experience love, but it is so difficult nowadays and if I can't have it then... whatever, i guess, I'll just have fun on my own or with friends like you.

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  • Crusades
    10 years ago

    I won't comment on if it's normal or not but it's definitely common in women nowadays. Women usually have a very low sex drive compared to men and that's why a lot of them don't really feel the need for a partner, and as time goes by, a lot of them experience a drastic decline in sexual urges to the point that their whole sexuality just fades away. I noticed this tendency especially in women who consider or used to consider themselves straight. I don't really noticed this in bisexual women and lesbians. Usually gay people are either in a relationships or are searching for a sex partner. I rarely see gay people not having any interest in relationships at all.
    This can most likely be a result of the fact that this society has been feminized drastically and masculinity in general lost it's appeal for women. Masculine beauty is pretty much non existent aesthetically. That's why so many straight women have pretty much no interest in dating. Because they can't find the element that they find naturally attractive, in today's society. Masculinity.

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    • dom180
      10 years ago

      I can't say I've personally noticed that women usually have a very low sex drive.

      :P

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      • Crusades
        10 years ago

        I said compared to men.

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        • dom180
          10 years ago

          Even compared to men.

          :P :P

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  • noid
    9 years ago

    Relationships are way overrated.

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  • orinoco
    10 years ago

    These guys just get you pregnant, so be careful. Masturbate and make your career.

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  • GreatArt
    10 years ago

    You probably haven't found someone better than in your 2-year relationship. I don't think its normal to be an eunuch. Perhaps, like Crusade said a masculine or even a true element is missing. Like u feel your relationships are superficial and prefer work instead. Life's much more fun with a partner.

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