Is it normal to not want a boyfriend because your self-conscious?

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So, every time I get into a relationship, I start to feel very self-conscious and all of a sudden I want to break up with him. Like, I feel like I am not good enough for him and I think about if he thinks that too. I am a little chunky and I am very self-conscious about that. Maybe I am just worried he will want to touch me and I will get embarrassed and feel bad about myself. What do you guys think? Help!

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    Oh blah blah blah. He's with you isn't he?!?! Fix yourself if you're so worried about it.

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  • robbieforgotpw
    11 years ago

    Do something about it

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  • purplegirl22
    11 years ago

    If it bothers you, it shouldn't because chances are it doesn't bother him. Guys don't want to have to reassure their gf's a lot so stop being self-conscious!!

    If your weight bothers you do something to change it, maybe invite a couple girls with you once or twice a week to work out. It is that simple, you should start to feel better about yourself real soon!

    Ps. I used to be very self-conscious and I still am so that’s why I don't have a boyfriend (one of the reasons). :) Good luck!

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  • BlndHairDntCarr
    11 years ago

    Yes, sorry I did spell it wrong in the title. Excuse the fuck out of me

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    • dirtybirdy
      11 years ago

      Hahaha Excuse the fuck out of me...I like it! Seriously girl no one is perfect. You see your 'flaws' more than anyone else. Don't worry so much. Unnecessary stress.

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  • BlndHairDntCarr
    11 years ago

    Thank you for that "helpful" response but as far as I know I did not put "your" or you're" anywhere in my story or my comment. Thank you.

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  • wuddeva
    11 years ago

    What was your self conscious telling you? Was it that grammar matters and that it is shameful to not be able to type an "e" at the end of "your" to produce "you're"? Until you know what the difference between your and you're is, please do not date.

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  • BlndHairDntCarr
    11 years ago

    Thanks. I have been trying to lose weight. I am not overweight, just a little chunky. I'm 17 and 158. I use to be 163 and I have lost 5 pounds.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    I have felt like that before I got in a relationship before. Where I'm in the dating stage xP Hate that stage. You think things like. Does he like it shaved or unshaved? Will it gross him out if it's not? Omfg it's december, did I even shave my legs?? What if he sees me naked and changed his mind? What if i'm fat, or it turns out my breasts are to small???? Never after I've been in a relationship though. I know how you feel :P :P Guys and girls got it rough with the whole "Impressing eachother" thing. Just try to remind yourself. Once you're in the relationship, that means he likes you and doesn't see those flaws! So you can relax a little :)

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