Is it normal to not wanna be around youre niece

I am a father of 3 kids I have a 3 year old a 2 year old and a 7 month old daughter I was raised to have reapect for people around me at all time so I have raised my kids the same way. My sister was raised just like me also but she has a daughter which is my niece and I love her dearly she is 2 years old but most of the time I really cant stand her my sister lets her run wild she dosent discipline her and when she is around my kids I feel like my kids are the one always getting into trouble for what she does. My kids a really protective of each other so when there cousion messes with one the defend each other and alot of times it seems like they get in trouble for something they shouldn't be sometimes I fel like I juat dont want them around my siater and hwr daughter cause I dont want to hear them get in trouble are want them to pick up the bad habits either doea that make me a bad father are uncle?

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Based on 57 votes (40 yes)
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  • tedias

    Your protectiveness makes you a good father, and I'm saying that as a son. Keep them safe and well now, and when they're old enough to be susceptible to dangerous relationships, you can trust your parenting when they were younger, to help them then.

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  • daddyjm2014

    Im sorry but strongly disageee with you kids are the greatest gift anyone could get until u have one you will never understand.

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    • DiamondGirl

      Sorry daddy, but I disagree with u kids r not the greatest gift. That's Bullshit. Diamonds are. Sorry ur wrong. I wouldn't trade my jewelery for a screaming, brat. That I have to take care of until he/she can support itself. That sounds like some kind of hell to me.

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  • It makes you a good father

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  • daddyjm2014

    Thanks gonna try that

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  • Shackleford96

    Have you tried talking to your sister about this?

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    • I have hinted around about it but ive been trying not to hurt her feelings I dont wa nt her thinking she is a bad mom its just I just get so annoyed when around them now I try to atay away the only time I really let me kids go around thwm anymore is with there mom is around so I dont have to deal with it.

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      • Shackleford96

        I think you should have a serious talk to her about it and tell her EXACTLY how you feel, no beating around the bush about it either. Tell her you don't think she's a bad mom, but she does need to discipline her kids better and tell her some ways in which she could do so. Give specific examples and stuff.

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