Is it normal to not understand why people love me?

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all the time my boyfriend tells me he loves me and I know he does. but I don't get how he ever could love me... I'm a horrible person... and I'm not even pretty. I have the worst habits in the world and I know he hates them. I'm an uber nerd at school and he hates it when I correct him. I apologize too often coz it's a habit. I have really really bad acne all over. I never talk to anyone at school and he's afraid of the friends that I do have. I have really bad depression and social anxiety so i know I'm hard to deal with. i have done horrible horrible things that i am very ashamed of... I hate myself and I'm always putting myself down and I can never see what there is to love about me... I try and try but i don't see anything in myself. I just don't get how ANYBODY could love someone like me...

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Based on 52 votes (42 yes)
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  • yourfuckinghero
    13 years ago

    Perhaps you are very skilled at oral sex?

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    • BoredGuy
      13 years ago

      Sure is that or in general excellent sex performance. Way to a man's heart is food and sex.

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  • Faitafull
    13 years ago

    Shut the hell up and count your self lucky to find a guy!!!

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  • mumbum
    12 years ago

    Good answer ldizzy... As long as your live for him is stringer than your hate for yourself, then all will be ok. You just need to find a way to accept your flaws as a part of being human

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  • Ldizzy1234
    13 years ago

    Obviously you have a lot of good things about you that you're not aware of. When people say that they enjoy your company, and your boyfriend tells you that he loves you, don't question it. Just accept it. Wouldn't you rather be loved then hated? I would breathe a sigh of relief to hear that someone loves me.

    Don't think too much into things. Your boyfriend actually loves you for who you really are. Learn to take compliments. Don't pick at the good things that people tell you. If you can't figure out the reasons why he loves you for who you are, then maybe you don't really know who you are. Maybe you're just concentrating on the things that you find to be negative traits of yourself. Maybe you're better then you actually think.

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  • sweetlemon
    13 years ago

    there's no reason needed to love someone sincerely.. (aww..)
    you should be grateful because he loves you just the way you are.. :D

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    -sigh-
    Put it in your diary and not on IsItNormal.

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