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Okay I've found out my boyfriend of 6yrs has been looking at porn! I was crushed I hate porn..now I'm jealous. Is it normal to no longer trust him? Everytime he says he won't look at it no more I catch him again! will I ever trust him again??
What a horrible thing, this porn. If your bf hasn't been arrested and jailed then there is something really wrong in the world. No quarter should be given this despicable man. NONE! The idea that ANYONE would find pleasure from looking at another person is repulsive. REPULSIVE!!!! You are doing the Lord's work with your one-woman crusade. If the legal system wont help, then you should take it upon yourself to teach this dreg a lesson. You should fuck all his friends and film it. Then make him watch it! That will show him just how disGusting porn is. Peace be with you weirdo.
I was expecting something worse... It's just porn... Don't bother him about it
After a 3 year relationship with my girlfriend, I never admitted to watching porn when she asked however I still did it.
You need to know porn is just masturbation with a visual aids.
It's normal to be jealous. How ever he should have enough respect to keep it more hidden.
TL;DR. Nothing to worry about, he's just trying to please you by saying he doesn't. Shows he cares about how you feel.
To address the trust issue: If he told you he wouldnt and lied to you then i wouldnt trust his ass either. If he was still gunna watch it he should grow up and be straightforward with you about it, not lie and go behind your back.
And now to address the porn issue: i will NOT date someone who watches porn while we are together. It depresses me so bad. It makes me feel like im not good enough. It makes me feel like complete shit. It hurts me too much so i wont be with someone who does it because i wouldnt be happy and itd just cause fights. I dont get off to other guys. All ill need is the one im with. So i need someone who only needs me. If he cant do that then we will break up. No need to drag it out, that simple.
Oh, and i read the other comments... i find that after doing so, i feel bad for the question poster. Like this time. So. If youre not happy, break up, and find someone who feels the same way as you. And id MUCH rather be singke than.with a liar. I dont care if theyre lying to spare my feelings. They can go suck a big one. And id rather be single than with someone who made me feel like shit.
I. Will. Not. Settle. Because that would mean im settling with being less than happy. And i deserve to be happy.
I thought it was gonna be way worse too. It's just porn, you dot own him. If he wants to look at it it's his right to do so, it's selfish to think you can control him.
Nearly all guys watch porn. It is not a big deal, if you found the right kind (like for my girlfriend it is the late night softcore HBO shows that do it for her) offer to watch one with him one night. You might even find you like it.
Pretty much every guy looks at porn even in a relationship. I guess you never got the memo. Looking at porn is not a reason he should lose your trust though.
You not trusting him is terrible, but to think he is never going to look at porn is unreasonable. Change your thinking or just move on! Good luck with your choices!
You're over-reacting and being really silly about it. Porn aids in masturbation for a lot of guys. Would you be jealous if you caught him masturbating? No. Porn does not equal cheating.
Trust me, I used to feel jealous too. And I don't like my boyfriend watching porn. I told him not to or if he does make sure to completely erase it and do it when I'm not around. I don't think he watches it. We've been having sex at a good rate. :/ now if he's obsessed that's different. But it's pretty innocent, he's a boy!
He's a man he's gonna watch porn. Unless Its gay porn I wouldn't be concerned. Or if hes watching it getting off and not having sex with u.