Is it normal to not trust spouse

What do u 'mean while we together'? If they cheated on u, an more that once, I wouldn't trust him/her either.

if you were cheated on by your spouse when you were together then hell ya i would say it is normal. maybe you need to re evaulate your relationship? If all that is happening is you being cheated on that kinda thing could be time to get a new spouse. Just saying

Why do you think you won't be able to see your kids anymore you have just as much rights as she does if she's cheating leave her are you waiting for her to get pregnant by her lover to walk out the door she took vows her lover didn't cheaters never ever change bear that in mind

Yes she has cheated on me, ending the marriage right now would be horrible because I would most likely never get to see my kids. I can't live states away from them and she would definately move closer to family. Our marriage is not open, but if there is more to her story at all, that would be my solution.

Do you have an open relationship?

Are you taking other partners?

If not, dump him!!! Define the relationship and trust or end it

It's normal but you'll be in a better situation if you learn to get past whatever is causing the distrust.

Trust is a hard thing to come by these days. Why don't you just trust in the Lord?

I think it sorta depends on the sorta relationship you had/have. Some people are open about everything and some people don't talk about everything.

well if you never trust anyone then you are going to be very lonely for a long long time.

If they cheated on you more than once, they shouldn't be your spouse anymore.

Now me on the other doesn't give second chances for that kind of trust.