Is it normal to not trust other females.

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I knew this girl, lora. she was my bestfriend. I met a guy named Jake. I told lora that I liked him and I had started talking to him. A week later, they were making out at the mall and stuff but I decided to stop talking to both when I found out. But they didn't leave me alone. I stopped talking to her because I felt more betrayed because we had been friends for a while and I had just met him not too long ago.
He and I were together for three years. Probably the worst 3 years of my life. But that third year, he told me he was having a baby with someone else. It turned out to be lora. I felt so betrayed and I have trust issues because of that now. I don't trust any female. Not around my current boyfriend, doesn't matter who it is. I don't trust them. I trust my boyfriend but some females are just so shady. I feel like a control freak or jealous freak but I can't help it. I want someone to understand that feeling I get. Or that feeling I can't get out. Jake wasn't faithful at all and I was an idiot. He cheated many times and I kept given chances, that was a mistake on my part but when you love someone. You keep trying :/ uff. I just can't deal with these jealousy and trust issues. I don't like it, but it's just how I feel. Is that normal?

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    NEITHER of them are trustworthy, why only distrust other women?

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    • 8=====D~~~~~
      7 years ago

      Women do this sort of thing to one another far more often than men do it to one another. Most men at least try to carry themselves with some level of honor or good character. I know I wouldn't go near any of my friends girls or even ex's.

      Women just don't give a shit. All of you operate on a herd mentality. If one man is attracting the majority of women other women are automatically going to at least see what the deal is, one thing leads to another...

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    • landi41
      7 years ago

      In my case, it's because I trusted her and she was a female too. So I felt like if she didn't want that done to her, why would she do it to me. I wouldn't do that to anyone, so why would they do it to me? And I don't trust jake, but jake died in January.

      I found out lora actually fucked one of my other exes too. But they're right ^^ women do that a lot. Or they want the happiness and attention the girl if getting from her boyfriend and she wants to try and do something.

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