Is it normal to not trust my bf??

Id not trust my bf, we've been together 2 yrs. And i'm trying to really start trusting him. Idk how or where to start?

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Based on 27 votes (13 yes)
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  • lc1988

    You find someone else. If you don't know how to trust then that sounds like a sucky relationship. I dk how else to say it.

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  • 1manband

    NO trust, NO relationship!
    if it's because of your own insecurity, then I suggest you seek more professional help or advice.

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  • crazeeguy

    It is normal not to trust your BF but only if you have a 'reason' not to trust him.

    My last ex gf did not trust me when i did nothing to make her not trust me!

    IF he is talking to other girls in bad ways, cheating, kissing another girl, texting someone behind or spending time with another girl all the time over you - then these are valid reasons for you to lose trust in someone you love.

    If you don't trust him and have no reason to because of your insecurity then you must work on your security. Speak to your boyfriend, you must trust him though otherwise he will think your up to something. If you have reason for not trusting him because of his attitude/behaviour then tell him what he does is making you feel uncomfortable.

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  • kerk_

    there is nothing abnormal in having little or no trust in someone until they have earned theirs, but no trust even after 2 years, you need better communication skill to be able to gain more trust, so that if he tries to lie/cheat/hide things, you can know how trustworthy he really is.

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  • Drakewolf

    U shuold still trust him coming from some 1 who has a gf and she trusted me

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