Is it normal to not to like to get along with male friends?

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It's not that I dont get along... I get along very well but i just hate that I have to keep it up! Hate!

You know, I get a new work and start in the first day get along with the mates, laugh(sometimes even if I dont feel like just to feel 'social') but I just need half an hour to get used and sick of the guys... I just dont anymore have the need to dig into having a more intimate friendship like I used to when I was younger... I'm 20 and prefer the company of a female (no i'm not gay), you know, just find the girls to be more agradable to talking to, laughing with, I mean doing everything with them... I never had a GF though just some hook ups.

For you to understand a lil more, I used to be afraid of the girls in the sense of having a date, or asking them out I just used to feel that I wasnt good enough for the girl bc I used to have really low self steem but today I feel I can and prefer to go out by myself get to know girls rather then going with a mate.

Just wanted to know if there is anybody like me! who hate the company of people of the same gender of them! Or if I feel like a freak who's just arrogant.

I dont treat the guys badly but prefer to stay away from them and talk only the necessary, and i'm not anti social, i'm normally social... but profoundly hate it because most of the time I get knocked in my work because of this lack of 'mateship' with the men there... and get totally ignored.

If anyone of you has the recipe to being less false, and knows how I feel... please share it here i'll be delighted.

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  • gmc.2
    11 years ago

    this is so normal . in front of the guys u have to be like cool and super active . with girls u can have a rest ;)

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    • Carlosolrac
      11 years ago

      No I dont act like that, its more that the male coleagues tell lots of not funny jokes and hate having to laugh it off, it gets me tired... but the girls are way agradable.

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  • thesavagewithin
    11 years ago

    I agree with you with females being more open in conversations and they do seem to make better company to talk to. But be careful so as to not being involved in "girly" stuff as females, like us males, have their own zone that doesn't involve males. Just my two cents.

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