Is it normal to not to have sex before marrige?

I belive everyone should have sex with only one lady in life. That is his wife. What do you think? These days teenagers having sex with lots of partners. Shouldn't it be stopped?

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Based on 81 votes (43 yes)
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  • CountessDouche

    It's normal to chose not to have sex before marriage, if that's what you want, OP. It is not normal to tell others what to do with their lives or their bodies.

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  • allisonhamershamn260

    freak! you should be stopped.

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  • Gspyder

    It would lead to less complications, but teens have always had sex and always will have sex. Nothing new about that.

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  • Mr-Myrtos

    That's not really a question but more like a statement.
    With a statement like that I don't dare to give any opinion about the issue.
    Anything I could say would sound bad to you.
    Fallow your believes but after do not complain if your relationship turns miserable.

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  • Nokiot9

    No. Why would you attach yourself to someone if that's the only person you've ever been with? I'd always be wondering what I missed out on. The guy that wrote that quote "the grass is always greener on the other side" saved himself for marriage lol. Every person you have sex with is a different and possibly better experience, why wouldn't you go for the best you can get? Settling for anything is just half assing it and making excuses for not living life

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  • richmanjoe

    Only about 2% of American women are virgins when they get married. That makes it not normal.

    As it turns out, the average age of marriage for a virgin woman is 18. That means they are not waiting to have sex really, just getting married earlier.

    The divorce rate for marriages that occur in teens is enormous.

    The odds for your fantasy marriage are not in your favor.

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  • Mat

    I respect every single person here who are against me or with me.

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  • Mat

    Actually I am not forcing to stop just worried that doing sex many time at an early age could affect health and body situation.
    ******:-)
    "I respect all different type comment and believes"

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  • motherlovebone69120

    I think that thegypsysailor and mountain-man82 are both absolutely correct. I had sex with over 30 women before I got married. The funny thing is that the girl I ended up marrying was the 4th one that I fucked. I had to try a smorgasbord of other ladies before I went back to her. That all being said, I have a daughter who is in her early 20's and still a virgin. She wants to save it for the man she marries. She even dated a guy in high school for about 3 years and they both are still virgins. They just went their separate ways after high school. I don't know where her high morals came from(certainly not from me), but I'm proud of her. If she does end up having sex before she is married, that is alright too.

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  • GreyWulfen

    It's a personal choice. And marriage is a very arbitrary thing, imo. If you know he/she is the "one", then you don't need marriage to confirm this.
    But sadly, relationships don't always work out perfectly fine, and you can't look into the future.

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  • Goomats

    That is a great ideal to strive for. It's hard. I didn't make it, but hopefulyl I will marry the only man I've ever shagged.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    Your choice is your choice

    the best thing you can do is to show others a better example.

    it'll likely have a better effect than trying to force them to stop

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!

    No, all women are sluts now haven't you heard?.

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  • thegypsysailor

    I think you would be making a huge mistake. If you do not have several partners before marriage, you will not be a good lover and, even more importantly, later in life you will, certainly begin to wonder what it would be like to be with another woman.
    Sex, like anything else takes practice to get good at and it would be very sad indeed, if you could not please your wife on your wedding night, because you have no idea of what you are doing. Since you are inexperienced (and I assume you want a virgin wife?) where are you going to learn the variety that keeps a couple's sex life interesting and fun, after a few years.
    You and your wife will begin to wonder what sex with another person would be like, after few years together. It's only natural. So do your screwing around NOW, before marriage, and you will not need to fuck up your marriage later.

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    • mountain-man82

      I agree with a lot of this, but I also think its important to have sex with the person you want to marry before you marry them because thats the only way to know if you are sexually compatible.

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